“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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any newly married guys here?

chopper1911

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been married a week and some change just curious of any other mm are here especially any long time married guys lol
im 34 by the way
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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not much has changed except my pockets are a lot lighter after this wedding and honeymoon and we dont talk as much maybe I m just new at this at getting jittery with the new environment. will keep u posted though. I checked out the marriage thread too that was a TON of info!
whoa
 

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Yes please do.

Keep this thread going - and update us every so often.

Value added info.
 

chopper1911

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actually got married on 4/30/05 but we wont be living together until next monday 5/16/05 so its kinda hard to tell so far how this is going to go. Honeymoon was ok blue water and cheap rum I was a happy ass man! fyi we have never lived together im 34 she 31. I m starting to think that even once you are married women still try and afc you a lil bit on the sneak.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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How'd you guys meet? Do you both live near your families? How long have you been together?

Just some starter questions :)
 

chopper1911

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we met when I was living in atlanta and met at a local college there which is where she is from. She moved here (yesterday as a matter of fact) most of my family lives here.
 

penkitten

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good luck and remember things are what you make them
 

chopper1911

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Thanks Pen
first real night at my crib for both of us went pretty smooth. except my bad ass cold.
 

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yeah it was strange at 1st being married. whole relationship dynamic changes. I guess I went into freeze mode realizing I was a married man now and no more new p***y ever! After a few days I finally settled down and was getting used to the fact that Im married now. I do advise people to definitely live together 1st!
DEFINITELY
 

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Originally posted by chopper1911
yeah it was strange at 1st being married. whole relationship dynamic changes. I guess I went into freeze mode realizing I was a married man now and no more new p***y ever! After a few days I finally settled down and was getting used to the fact that Im married now. I do advise people to definitely live together 1st!
DEFINITELY
I once went out with a girl who wanted to marry me. When I suggested we live together first, she got offended because she felt like it would be a "tryout" and she could fail.

Of course, I ended up dumping her anyway.
 

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Originally posted by chopper1911
yeah it was strange at 1st being married. whole relationship dynamic changes. I guess I went into freeze mode realizing I was a married man now and no more new p***y ever! After a few days I finally settled down and was getting used to the fact that Im married now. I do advise people to definitely live together 1st!
DEFINITELY

The smartest thing you can do is to CONTINUE to court your wife. Take her out on dates, continue to woo her.

Dont fall in to the deadiest of marriage killers..... complacency and assumption...

Doc Love has a great thesis on this... only tell her you love her for every 3 times she tells you that she loves you... women love a chase so let her still chase you even though you are married
 

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thanks for all the advice and observations had big ass fight over the weekend now back to lovey dovey land again. It is hard once you are married not to fall into afc land. thanks for the tips about continuing to court your wife even after you are married I can see how that mindset will help a relationship. hey gixxer sold my gixxer last year by the way lol
 

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big ass fight over the weekend

uh oh....careful bro, careful. Pay attention...

You sold your gixxer? You have lost your mind!! :D
 

chopper1911

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yeah I sold the gixxer got a chopper too many tickets for wheelies etc. wasnt a fist fight just a big ol verbal argument. 1st one since we got married 25 days ago.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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SOLD THE GIXXER??? hmm, I've been thinking of selling my Fireblade, the insurance is killing me, and I haven't had a ticket in 15 years!!

just to agree with the others, you have to keep things interesting for sure, as soon as your marriage becomes a routine then your in trouble.
 
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