Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I'm not even takin' the piss - I'm DEAD serious. Think about it - if you were into black chicks and said the same thing, do you think any brotha in his right mind would do it? Most probably won't, because they feel your commodifying their sisters. But a asian-porn collectin' dude like you wouldn't care about that anyway, would you?Jake, I like you man, but come on. Who are you defending yourself from? I understand that as part of a minority you want to retain your culture and a strong community, but when people act like this, like there's some kind of war between all of the races (or between whites and minorities), it just makes it harder for everyone to get along and forget about the stereotypes. You just assume that because he's specifically targeting asian girls to date, he's "a creepy asian-fetishist moron." Just don't be so quick to judge.
Do I sense an insecurity problem here
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
