"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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any kind of programs to lose weight in your face?

insanity

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i'm in pretty good shape but my best feature- my face is still round/chubby. i have great cheekbones but they are rounded by a little bit of chub. also my chin isn't fully double but when i see pictures of my face it sticks out. the only way i have been able to achieve weightloss in my face is to go 10 to 15 pounds underweight.

most people, when they lose weight, they seem to lose it in their face first. for me it's like the last place to go on me. i don't want to go and get any kind of lipo to the face. i chew alot of gum and thats nnot helping either.

anyone else have this problem? or solutions
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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donjuanjovi

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Unfortunately you cannot spot reduce fat. It's your body's decision where to burn fat from not yours.

How old are you? Usually the face chub burns off once you get a good ol' helping of testosterone via puberty. Also when you say 10-15 pounds underweight, what do you mean? I'm having a hard time trying to imagine someone being cut to shreds with every deltoid and oblique muscle popping out while having a double chin.

Some info like height, weight, age, estimated bf%, or even a few pics would help out.
 

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Yeah, it's called liposuction.


The only way to reduce bodyfat in one specific place is liposuction.
 

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whats your body fat %? Anything below 10% with your face still chub, and you've got some work to do.
 

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try building muscle, it helps lean you out without going 'underweight' as you say.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i am 29 years old. yeah unfortunately my body loves sending fat to my face. i'm really toned in my legs, shoulders, arms. a have a small spare tire but i don't look overweight. when i go to the gym it seems like no matter how long and hard i workout i never lose all that much weight. i won't give up though.

i'm 5'11 and i weigh 177 pounds and i have had a sculpted face before. i was just wondering why some people get lucky and lose facial fat first and i have to be underweight to look great.

thanks for answering my most wondered question guys
 

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you can't lose 'weight' while doing all that lifting & cardio. what you can hope to do is add muscle and/or lose bodyfat. there are 3 possibilities there, and they're very different strategies. diesel's stickies describe pure muscle addition or fat subtraction, while WBA's Idiot's Guide details how to do both at the same time.
 
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