"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Any investment bankers out there?

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Going into my senior year of college and shooting for corporate finance. Is there any one out there who wouldn't mind answering some questions?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Depends on what you want to do. Corporate finance is too broad of an area. What aspects of finance do you like? Few more specifics would be helpful.

There are three key things about career advancement

1. Degrees/Certifications
2. Who you know - Contacts
3. Resume

#2 is ultimately the most important because even without #1 or #3 you can still get good work, but in order to maximize number #2 you usually need #1 and #3
 

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I work with bankers, lawyers, corporate finance, PE guys, etc. Anything involving M&A basically.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I am not one but my cousin is an investment banker in Saudi Arabia. He went there to make the money. He makes 500 grand a year. Here in the States he would make a fraction of that. He lives in a compound.

My advice? Go work in Saudi Arabia.
 

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Any american companies that hire or full commission to work with American Companies in SA ?

Any pointers
Thanks

Malice said:
I am not one but my cousin is an investment banker in Saudi Arabia. He went there to make the money. He makes 500 grand a year. Here in the States he would make a fraction of that. He lives in a compound.

My advice? Go work in Saudi Arabia.
 

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carrot said:
Any american companies that hire or full commission to work with American Companies in SA ?

Any pointers
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I can't remember the name of the institution he works for. But he can speak fluent Arabic and several other languages so I'm sure that helps. He came to visit a few months ago and he told me about it. He is making serious bank. I don't talk to him except for that one visit.
 

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I'm interested in M&A. I'm wondering if any of you guys might have any pointers for a non-target college senior. I interned at a boutique M&A shop for a year. I want to get into a bulge bracket if possible though. I'm also a finance major and accounting minor. Any pointers?

I'm not sure what the best route to making connections is.

Oh, and I also interned for Deloitte in their audit practice this summer (hated it-hate accounting).
 

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Wanted to add to the above excellent post to include PE, VC, hedge funds, mutual funds, pension funds, turnaround, accounting, law and commercial real estate firms in your self-promotion, networking and job search efforts. Anyone you know or get to know in those areas can be tapped for connections if not actual jobs themselves.

If I had it to do over again, would try to get an entry level job in a deal oriented accounting firm, paralegal for a law firm deal department (corporate, rl estate or insolvency doesn't matter), or corporate law department in a company that does lots of M&A out of college, rather than a position with an Ibank. Then go back to business school in a couple years, then hit up the banks. The experience in a deal infrastructure firm in law, accounting, etc., would be better than entry level in a bank IMO. If you could enter business school being able to close a deal and understanding all the logistics and stages of it, that would be a huge advantage. Also use those interim years to either learn or polish a language skill in serious ways. Good luck.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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