Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Moon Ram

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Any other DJs living in Bangladesh except me?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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thefonz

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Boston Indian here!

Hit me up boys if you're in the area.
 

LordGrin

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me too

hey guys, im 1/2 indian n 1/2 paki, im 16 and i live near chicago (gurnee to b specific), any teenage guys from arnd chicago here?
by the way, i look pretty indian as well, but somtimes people think im mexican.
but just wait n see, in the next month or 2 all the HBs will b droolin over my
desi-ass too ;)
 

Cheeky

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Indian working in Glasgow, born in Birmingham and fly back down to Birmingham at the weekends to hit up the bars and clubs. The Game is the same whatever colour, age, class you are. The key is calibration.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Gobar Bomb

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apna. india...any tips

guys how do dj the gal up here in south asia...apna. india...any tips...i knw most of the stuff put on the site is american (not that it dosent workin here..)but i want more proof or generalisation ....any takers.....
 

spesmilitis

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How is the dating scene in some of the more modern cities? I know dating is less prevalent there since it is a conservative culture. But with more young people working and living by themselves. . . .
 

Cheeky

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I've been across to India and it is very different to America and UK but the principals are the same. The cold approach I would say is a lot harder in India, but I think the way to Game girls in India is to build up a large social circle. Get to know everyone - at school, college, in your town in your university. Know all the guys and all the girls.

Make sure you stand out from all the others guys who are desperate to even talk to women. Dress well. If you have any questions, take photographs and post them up on the board and ask for feedback. Remember to wear clothes that fit well. Also a great way to stand out is to get a funky haircut. Be confident with it.

Start going to the gym and working out. You don't need to look like a bodybuilder, but having a good body does not hurt. If you have any specific questions, send me an email and I'll get back to you when I can.
 

timorozco

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I'm indian, No.1 ustad (obviously hindi). But yea, in India the guys really need this site. They're way to forward on cold approaches to the point of weirding most girls out...
 

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Someone Much cooler said:
I'm african american and cherokee. I live in PA, but alot of my family is on a reservation in long island
I feel ya, bro
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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penkitten

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im an indian outlaw.... half cherokee and chocktaw... my babys shes a chickawaw... shes a one of a kind
 

Snoppy_11

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Hey man ,
From India too . (If u are that is )
MUmbai actually !
 

The_Crack

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indian, in aus.
*****es always mirin' me.

they love the brown skin and exotic look.. you just have to be confident in yourself and carry yourself around like a boss. Doesn't matter if your skinny, but just dont be fat :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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