"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Any other DJs living in Bangladesh except me?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Boston Indian here!

Hit me up boys if you're in the area.
 
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me too

hey guys, im 1/2 indian n 1/2 paki, im 16 and i live near chicago (gurnee to b specific), any teenage guys from arnd chicago here?
by the way, i look pretty indian as well, but somtimes people think im mexican.
but just wait n see, in the next month or 2 all the HBs will b droolin over my
desi-ass too ;)
 
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Indian working in Glasgow, born in Birmingham and fly back down to Birmingham at the weekends to hit up the bars and clubs. The Game is the same whatever colour, age, class you are. The key is calibration.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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apna. india...any tips

guys how do dj the gal up here in south asia...apna. india...any tips...i knw most of the stuff put on the site is american (not that it dosent workin here..)but i want more proof or generalisation ....any takers.....
 
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How is the dating scene in some of the more modern cities? I know dating is less prevalent there since it is a conservative culture. But with more young people working and living by themselves. . . .
 
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I've been across to India and it is very different to America and UK but the principals are the same. The cold approach I would say is a lot harder in India, but I think the way to Game girls in India is to build up a large social circle. Get to know everyone - at school, college, in your town in your university. Know all the guys and all the girls.

Make sure you stand out from all the others guys who are desperate to even talk to women. Dress well. If you have any questions, take photographs and post them up on the board and ask for feedback. Remember to wear clothes that fit well. Also a great way to stand out is to get a funky haircut. Be confident with it.

Start going to the gym and working out. You don't need to look like a bodybuilder, but having a good body does not hurt. If you have any specific questions, send me an email and I'll get back to you when I can.
 
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I'm indian, No.1 ustad (obviously hindi). But yea, in India the guys really need this site. They're way to forward on cold approaches to the point of weirding most girls out...
 
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Someone Much cooler said:
I'm african american and cherokee. I live in PA, but alot of my family is on a reservation in long island
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I feel ya, bro
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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im an indian outlaw.... half cherokee and chocktaw... my babys shes a chickawaw... shes a one of a kind
 
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Hey man ,
From India too . (If u are that is )
MUmbai actually !
 
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indian, in aus.
*****es always mirin' me.

they love the brown skin and exotic look.. you just have to be confident in yourself and carry yourself around like a boss. Doesn't matter if your skinny, but just dont be fat :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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