"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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any ideas plz?

speedF

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sup players,
i just moved into a new apartment, and sold my old couch. anyhow, i have a date who i wanted to come over to my apartment and catch a movie. however- i just realized, i dont really have anything good for us to sit on. i mean, i just lug a kitchen table chairs to the living room when i watch tv.

i wont be buying a couch until Fall, so i need some ideas. maybe, just on the carpet w/ pillows? i was going to lug my tv into my bedroom... and have us watch on my bed, but i'm not sure if i can pull that off. or maybe, i should cancel.

any ideas?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Cod3r

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How about telling her the truth and laugh about it ?? Soon as she comes in confidently tell her you sold your couch and if she has any ideas what you guys could sit on, make a joke about it and lighten the mood... That's what I would do and have done in the past, has never failed, truthful confidence...


-Cod3r
 

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speedF said:
i was going to lug my tv into my bedroom... and have us watch on my bed, but i'm not sure if i can pull that off. or maybe, i should cancel.

OMG dude , what the fcuk do you want to a couch for?????????
Of course you should be watching the movie in your bedroom.
That's how you tell you're in a player's apartment , THEY DON'T EVEN OWN A COUCH!!!!!!
 
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