"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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any ideas plz?

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speedF

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sup players,
i just moved into a new apartment, and sold my old couch. anyhow, i have a date who i wanted to come over to my apartment and catch a movie. however- i just realized, i dont really have anything good for us to sit on. i mean, i just lug a kitchen table chairs to the living room when i watch tv.

i wont be buying a couch until Fall, so i need some ideas. maybe, just on the carpet w/ pillows? i was going to lug my tv into my bedroom... and have us watch on my bed, but i'm not sure if i can pull that off. or maybe, i should cancel.

any ideas?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How about telling her the truth and laugh about it ?? Soon as she comes in confidently tell her you sold your couch and if she has any ideas what you guys could sit on, make a joke about it and lighten the mood... That's what I would do and have done in the past, has never failed, truthful confidence...


-Cod3r
 
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speedF said:
i was going to lug my tv into my bedroom... and have us watch on my bed, but i'm not sure if i can pull that off. or maybe, i should cancel.
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OMG dude , what the fcuk do you want to a couch for?????????
Of course you should be watching the movie in your bedroom.
That's how you tell you're in a player's apartment , THEY DON'T EVEN OWN A COUCH!!!!!!
 
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