Any ideas of ACTION dates?

[Shivastorm_88]

I find it hard to find some... I got quite a few but I'd like to find some more

so far I got:

Workout (can invite 6 person at my gym so it isn't unlimited)
squash
pool
Small-town zoo near my house
Bowling if I can find where it is
Arcade
Parks of course (play some soccer or football or whatnot)
anything else?

Just list anything you guys usually do and I'll see if I would be up to it or if it's possible near my area

 

[Jay Jay]

What I try to do is ask a few questions pre-date which lets me know the girls interests and then work around that.

Some other ideas.

Live music.
Markets/ Groovey shops.
Art Galleries/ Exhibitions.
Dancing.

 

[comic_relief]

how about a search for action dates?

play grounds, (actual) dances (square dance, swing dance, or something else that is a real dance. GRINDING IS NOT A DANCE!!!), and elsewhere that is fun.

Some of my best dates were at the playgrounds though.

comic_relief

 

[aussiegoat55]

A question first, what defines an action date from a non action date? Or to better define action date, what's a good example of a non action date.

Action dates:
- Go exploring in a different city, get out and walk around, go in shops, restaurants, but be sure to go to an interesting spot
- Walk around cultural pockets in the city like Little Tokyo, Chinatown, Koreatown, Little India
- Go for a walk
- The beach, surfing, kite surfing, wind surfing, body surfing, boogie boarding, swimming
- Kayaking, canoeing, rowing
- Biking
- Farmer's Markets, buy veggies and fruits and then cook together, or have her cook for you.
- Amusement parks, $$$ parking, food, admission, they get you in the a$$
- Museums, Art Fairs, go to art galleries
- Use public transportation, rails, bus, get lost if you want and try to find your way around
- Parks, tag, hide and go seek, frisbee, soccer
- Ice skating
- Do a 5k/10k run or if you're ambitious marathon, triathlon
- Volunteer
- Scavenger hunt
- Aquarium, zoo, planetarium
- Tidepools
- Camp, hike
- Dancing

Just try new things, do things you want to do and she might want to do, have fun, play, relax, explore, take adventures. Basically it's all about having fun.

I keep a list of action dates, non action dates, good non-chain restaurants, cool shopping centers, trendy areas, parks, drives, romantic locations, public transportation routes, activities all specific to the city (L.A.) so I usually don't run out of date ideas. I recommend making list for yourself.

 

[KnockoutJM]

Paintball

 

[Bible_Belt]

taking my dogs for a walk

 

[Obsidian]

dang, that squash idea is actually a really good one, except I'd probably go with racquetball because it's way easier

And the dancing thing is pretty good, too. I took a girl with me to this swing dance event a few nights ago (first hour was a lesson), and she seemed to really like it. Girls really get off on dancing for some reason. Even dance classes provide a really good opportunity to meet and kino girls, in my experience.