Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Any highh school regrets?

elite7

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The one thing I regret not dropping out earlier maybe not playing a sport you?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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FairShake

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elite7 said:
The one thing I regret not dropping out earlier maybe not playing a sport you?
For fvck's sake...:rolleyes:

Anyway I have no real regrets about high school. It's been awhile so perhaps I remember it better than it was but it was cool.

And honestly, it gets better.
 

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I've been an outcast in high school, never had a friend, never spoke to anyone, people laughed at me. I can't say that I have regrets about high school. My only regret is discovering DD and sosuave at 25 years old and not at 12.
 

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Drdeee said:
I've been an outcast in high school, never had a friend, never spoke to anyone, people laughed at me. I can't say that I have regrets about high school. My only regret is discovering DD and sosuave at 25 years old and not at 12.
I found the website around 15 or 16 years old. It saved my @$$ in high school from going psycho :trouble:

The only thing that I regret was not switching schools in high school. I just couldn't shake the weak persona that I had follow me throughout high school. Once I went to PGST and College, I was able to shake that persona.

Now I am a completely changed person, the only thing that I can say to high school students is "life goes on after high school." No matter how cliche it sounds, it is very true.

- comic_relief
 

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the4re was a girl in spanish glass that was a straight bopper. not real bad looking either. one day we skipped class and we are in my car and she says, i will do anything you want me to do, just tell me. my stupid **** face ass is going to saty "let's kiss" total epic fail. she would have blown me until oblivion if i let her. then i ran into the same girl at the fair and she wanted to ride on the ferris wheel so i can feel her up but i had a GF and didn't want it to get back to her. she wanted it. i failed.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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elite7

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hi

going to my reunion most of my buds have done alright but dropping out would have been good
 

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should have skipped a grade or 2 and go straight to college full time instead of doing the college night classes at 16. Good times at those classes, but they make high school look like a joke at the time.
 

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should have played puck instead of running track and playing golf. probably would have been able to play juniors not that the parents would have committed to anything like that anyway.
 

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I wish I had an advanced knowledge of STD's, a 'b!tches aren't sh!t' attitude and then fvcked a lot of the little young slvts in high school. The good thing about not fvcking those slvts was I didn't catch all of the nasty STD's that a lot of those slvts probably had, and I didn't get any money-sucking womb sh!tlets or psycho problem baby-mothers. A lot of the young teenage boys who get lots of pvssy have those problems because they don't know any better.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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squirrels

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Tons. Water under the bridge.

In about 10 years, people who I envied in high school will have regrets that they couldn't live more like me. :p
 

PRMoon

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There were a couple of girls literally throwing themselves at me that I blew off entirely. I made up for it as time went on though. Other than that everything went over well enough. They should call high school "practice years" because none of it really matters when it comes down to it.
 

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I regret not getting A's which I could have gotten easily if I wasn't so concerned with meaningless bullsh*t. I was under the impression that High School was a social club, which I guess a lot of people are. I thought failing was no big deal, even "cooler" than getting A's.
 

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Sh*t guys! So many of you are 30s, or hitting 30s. We'll gather together in an elderly home someday and do a bootcamp.
 

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No high school regrets, but tons of college ones. I was happy with where I was at in high school, even though I had little success with women, it didn't bother me. College though, I regret so many decisions I made I can't even count them; where I lived, who I socialized with, my major, the list goes on.

I'm a few months removed from graduating, and my major regrets are years in the past, so they are getting easier to deal with.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I really could have used this site when I was in high school. H.S. was just a chain of oneitis and hanging out with loser friends.

I would have been much better off joining a sport and getting a different circle of friends.
 

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Maxtro said:
I really could have used this site when I was in high school. H.S. was just a chain of oneitis and hanging out with loser friends.

I would have been much better off joining a sport and getting a different circle of friends.
Sports have been the biggest influence in my life as far as meeting new people. Just joined a coed softball team that starts in a few weeks, pumped to start.
 

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Maxtro said:
I really could have used this site when I was in high school. H.S. was just a chain of oneitis and hanging out with loser friends.

I would have been much better off joining a sport and getting a different circle of friends.
When I was in high school, everyone kept telling me, "You should get involved with a sport.". But, they NEVER told me WHY. So, I never tried it.

It took years for me to realize that it greatly expands your social circle and makes it way easier to get girls.

So I was the nerd, e.g. valedictorian in high school and summa c&m laude in college, but didn't get so much as a kiss until 27.
 

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i wish i would have played football I'm 5'6 230lbs of muscle and fat. I would have been a beast as an running back or wide receiver. I also wish I would have not dropped out. I was working at the time. I should have been more social. I'm way more social now but still no friends. I'm gonna start taking bjj and hope to join army
 

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No point thinking about the past.

It can provide no real answer until you stop being frustrated about it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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