"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Any here speak Polish?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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I hate to break it to ya... but that's not polish. Sounds like russian to me.
Anyway..
Here's the translation:
Subject: Greetings!!!
Sup!
I hope that your search is productfull / fruitfull.
kisses. bye.
Is this from some polish chick that you've been DJ-ing?
Greetings!
Have hope, from searches companies fruitful :> Kisses from...
Eva
Anyway, she's a Polish girl I chatted with online months ago who lives in my town, but I never got around to meeting her. Long story...I chatted with her a few times online. She said she'd be at a club with friends one night if I wanted to meet her, but I just gave her my number and told her to call me if she was there at the time. A couple weeks later, I think she did call and left a message I couldn't understand, but at that time I was seeing someone else. Now, she has her profile up again, and just sent me that message. I suppose I'll write back and see what she's up to.
Thanks for the translation.
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
TRANSLATION:
Subject: Pozdrowienia!!!
Subject: Blessings
Czesc!
Mam nadzieje, ze poszukiwania sa owocne
Buzka pa. I hope, that your search was fruitful. Kisses, bye.
Here are some phrases for your usage:
PHRASES:
Tak (tock) = Yes
Nie = No
Dzien Dobry (jen-dobry = Good monrning/afternoon, formal)
Jak sie masz? (Yak-sheh-mash = how are you?)
Prosze (Pro-sheh) = Please
Kochanie (Koh-ha-nye = sweetie)
Kurwa (coor-vah = wh0re)
F*ck = same in english
Pedal (Pe-daw) = homosexual male
Pizda (Peez-dah = p*ssy)
Any phrases you wanna know, let me know.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Thanks. Now, I just need the translation from ******** to English.
I replied, and then she wrote back with:
"I have subscribed for this tree day trial
I have been great. This was a great summer. I got my mom and some friends coming over here. I have been to Martha's Vineyard. It was lots of fun. Now school started so it gets pretty busy. How about you? Did you manage to travel? Have a good one."Screw it...I'm just going to ask her to meet up sometime and tell me more there. No more e-mail. The rapport still seems to be there, but we just haven't been in contact for months.