"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
any help is good
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Capt.Jack Sparrow
Master Don Juan
AlexisonFire25
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Here is the deal though you said u liked this girl so mabey she picked up on it and got nervous, or mabey she likes you and is shy. Because honestly not making a move wasntt hat big of a mistake ( as long as it wasnt for a way long time). Cause if chick is interest in you and you show slight ( but not that much) insterest in her she is going to go crazy and wonder why you arent worshipping the ground she walks on and like you more. Also Kinda has the whole im mysterious effect that gets her going "why doesnt he like me?"
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
don't do this. this is not dj. if you want this girl, you have to play it cool, like you dont really care that she isn't talking to you
most of the time you can say almost anything to the girl if you take a careful look at how you say it ie use the c&f
this is the story. you took to long asking her out or trying to hook up with her. you can still win her heart, but not as easily anymore. play it as cool as possible and dont give her any more attention then necessary, and whenever you do talk keep it light and funny. do this for a while, and do it right, and eventually she'll start vibing with you again. then do as you will.
trust me on this man i've been in this situation before it works.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
)AlexisonFire25
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ok heres my little story so far from beginning to end
I meet hot girl..hot girl flirts with me... I do nothing... she talks to me online and phone for like a couple good months... gone to her house... i asked myself does she really like me?... yet i reacted quite a little late... loses interest in me...Then i fvck up(as in was pissed all day then not purposely saying like cuss words, couple of that(yeah u know what i mean)) and she gets pissed, blocks me and doesnt wanna talk to me... so then we dont talk to each other...then i regret everything
lessen learned: keep your words to yourself as in keep mouth shut if i dont got good things to say
so basically guys, what should i do?
i think im pretty much screwed now
Capt.Jack Sparrow
Master Don Juan
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Capt.Jack Sparrow
Master Don Juan
You live in the UK dont cha