"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
any help is good
- Thread starter shdw
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Capt.Jack Sparrow
Master Don Juan
AlexisonFire25
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Here is the deal though you said u liked this girl so mabey she picked up on it and got nervous, or mabey she likes you and is shy. Because honestly not making a move wasntt hat big of a mistake ( as long as it wasnt for a way long time). Cause if chick is interest in you and you show slight ( but not that much) insterest in her she is going to go crazy and wonder why you arent worshipping the ground she walks on and like you more. Also Kinda has the whole im mysterious effect that gets her going "why doesnt he like me?"
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
don't do this. this is not dj. if you want this girl, you have to play it cool, like you dont really care that she isn't talking to you
most of the time you can say almost anything to the girl if you take a careful look at how you say it ie use the c&f
this is the story. you took to long asking her out or trying to hook up with her. you can still win her heart, but not as easily anymore. play it as cool as possible and dont give her any more attention then necessary, and whenever you do talk keep it light and funny. do this for a while, and do it right, and eventually she'll start vibing with you again. then do as you will.
trust me on this man i've been in this situation before it works.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
)AlexisonFire25
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ok heres my little story so far from beginning to end
I meet hot girl..hot girl flirts with me... I do nothing... she talks to me online and phone for like a couple good months... gone to her house... i asked myself does she really like me?... yet i reacted quite a little late... loses interest in me...Then i fvck up(as in was pissed all day then not purposely saying like cuss words, couple of that(yeah u know what i mean)) and she gets pissed, blocks me and doesnt wanna talk to me... so then we dont talk to each other...then i regret everything
lessen learned: keep your words to yourself as in keep mouth shut if i dont got good things to say
so basically guys, what should i do?
i think im pretty much screwed now
Capt.Jack Sparrow
Master Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Capt.Jack Sparrow
Master Don Juan
You live in the UK dont cha