"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
any help is good
- Thread starter shdw
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Capt.Jack Sparrow
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AlexisonFire25
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Here is the deal though you said u liked this girl so mabey she picked up on it and got nervous, or mabey she likes you and is shy. Because honestly not making a move wasntt hat big of a mistake ( as long as it wasnt for a way long time). Cause if chick is interest in you and you show slight ( but not that much) insterest in her she is going to go crazy and wonder why you arent worshipping the ground she walks on and like you more. Also Kinda has the whole im mysterious effect that gets her going "why doesnt he like me?"
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
don't do this. this is not dj. if you want this girl, you have to play it cool, like you dont really care that she isn't talking to you
most of the time you can say almost anything to the girl if you take a careful look at how you say it ie use the c&f
this is the story. you took to long asking her out or trying to hook up with her. you can still win her heart, but not as easily anymore. play it as cool as possible and dont give her any more attention then necessary, and whenever you do talk keep it light and funny. do this for a while, and do it right, and eventually she'll start vibing with you again. then do as you will.
trust me on this man i've been in this situation before it works.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Mr. Debonaire
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)AlexisonFire25
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ok heres my little story so far from beginning to end
I meet hot girl..hot girl flirts with me... I do nothing... she talks to me online and phone for like a couple good months... gone to her house... i asked myself does she really like me?... yet i reacted quite a little late... loses interest in me...Then i fvck up(as in was pissed all day then not purposely saying like cuss words, couple of that(yeah u know what i mean)) and she gets pissed, blocks me and doesnt wanna talk to me... so then we dont talk to each other...then i regret everything
lessen learned: keep your words to yourself as in keep mouth shut if i dont got good things to say
so basically guys, what should i do?
i think im pretty much screwed now
Capt.Jack Sparrow
Master Don Juan
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Capt.Jack Sparrow
Master Don Juan
You live in the UK dont cha