Hey, is there any guy out there worry after you have sex with your girlfriend? Like for example, even though you used a condom. The condom didn't tear, rip, or slip off. You still worry, what IF something went wrong and she got pregnant. Cause, lately I been stressing and worrying myself, waiting for her period really been quite not very interesting. Anyone been in this situation, or some advice to deal with all this ? I greatly appreciate it. Thanks.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Any guy worry, after they have Sex w/ your gf?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
undesputable
Master Don Juan
realax man....if you think something went wrong take the condom and blow some air into it, if it blows up like a balloon, nothing ripped and youre fine...haha
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
That was a good one...how long you been saving that??? ha ha HA
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At 16 everybody worries. At 16 you have been bombarded for a couple of years with the health classes where they separate the boys and the girls into two separate classrooms.
In the boys' classroom, they explain how you can get a girl pregnant just by looking at her sideways.
In the girls' classroom, they explain how celibacy is the only way to avoid eternal damnation and then they break into small focus groups to decide the best way to take over the world.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
i just do it while she's on her period (pulling out before i cùm), otherwise i go for anal... and nevertheless, i'm ALWAYS worried that some precùm could have stayed in there or that some sperm could have dipped down in her vagina from her a$$hole... i mean, what's the probability? 1 out of 1.000.000.000, i guess... i know and i worry anyway...
we're young, it's normal
we're young, it's normal
undesputable
Master Don Juan
how the **** old is your gf? youre 17, she must be around that age, so how the hell do you get anal out of her. Most girls at that age are like "ewww gross, why would you want to put your **** my my *******?", and most guys at 17 are like "how the **** do you expect me to put my **** in a ****hole?"
i just find it surprising that you have not only tried it but do it very often....
i'm 18 and she turned 17 a month ago. we started doing anal when she was 16 year old and i was 17.
what's more is, you can even not believe me, but my girl is perceived as a really polite and innocent girl! nobody would expect that she's into this kind of stuff... she even gets awkward when i try to talk about sex out of the bed, but when we are having sex it's a totally different reality for her... usher put it better:
"we want a lady in the street, but a freaky in the bed that says... YEAH YEAH YEAH!"
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Master Don Juan
gotta love those italian girls.... american girls are rotten and would rather do anything than to please a man. *****es around here have it wrong....they think that men are supposed to please them, and im not against that, but the main point is for them to please us....thats what they dont get.
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That part was actually by ludacris not usher
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Master Don Juan
The girls I have been with were all opposed to anal.