Hey, is there any guy out there worry after you have sex with your girlfriend? Like for example, even though you used a condom. The condom didn't tear, rip, or slip off. You still worry, what IF something went wrong and she got pregnant. Cause, lately I been stressing and worrying myself, waiting for her period really been quite not very interesting. Anyone been in this situation, or some advice to deal with all this ? I greatly appreciate it. Thanks.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Any guy worry, after they have Sex w/ your gf?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Master Don Juan
realax man....if you think something went wrong take the condom and blow some air into it, if it blows up like a balloon, nothing ripped and youre fine...haha
oakraiderz2
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That was a good one...how long you been saving that??? ha ha HA
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At 16 everybody worries. At 16 you have been bombarded for a couple of years with the health classes where they separate the boys and the girls into two separate classrooms.
In the boys' classroom, they explain how you can get a girl pregnant just by looking at her sideways.
In the girls' classroom, they explain how celibacy is the only way to avoid eternal damnation and then they break into small focus groups to decide the best way to take over the world.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
i just do it while she's on her period (pulling out before i cùm), otherwise i go for anal... and nevertheless, i'm ALWAYS worried that some precùm could have stayed in there or that some sperm could have dipped down in her vagina from her a$$hole... i mean, what's the probability? 1 out of 1.000.000.000, i guess... i know and i worry anyway...
we're young, it's normal
we're young, it's normal
undesputable
Master Don Juan
how the **** old is your gf? youre 17, she must be around that age, so how the hell do you get anal out of her. Most girls at that age are like "ewww gross, why would you want to put your **** my my *******?", and most guys at 17 are like "how the **** do you expect me to put my **** in a ****hole?"
i just find it surprising that you have not only tried it but do it very often....
i'm 18 and she turned 17 a month ago. we started doing anal when she was 16 year old and i was 17.
what's more is, you can even not believe me, but my girl is perceived as a really polite and innocent girl! nobody would expect that she's into this kind of stuff... she even gets awkward when i try to talk about sex out of the bed, but when we are having sex it's a totally different reality for her... usher put it better:
"we want a lady in the street, but a freaky in the bed that says... YEAH YEAH YEAH!"
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Master Don Juan
gotta love those italian girls.... american girls are rotten and would rather do anything than to please a man. *****es around here have it wrong....they think that men are supposed to please them, and im not against that, but the main point is for them to please us....thats what they dont get.
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That part was actually by ludacris not usher
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
WORKEROUTER
Master Don Juan
The girls I have been with were all opposed to anal.