"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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any good tips on getting kisses on the 2nd date?

Jaun_Don

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I am seeing this really cute 21 year old later in the week, she rang me last night and asked me to go to a party but I couldn't anyways she wants to go the movies this week, last week's date was cool but this one I want to go in for the kiss and was wondering what your fave tips are on this?.

Yeah I am the same guy that just had all that bull**** go down with his room mates but I'm not focused on that anymore there is no point.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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yeah man i followed your posts about that room mate stuff. i'm glad you bounced back so fast, man. cheers.

there's a couple things in the bootcamp @ the bible that are worth reading i feel.

im no expert but, a couple things i like to do:

1) simple, tried and true -- just hold EC, lean in, hold the back of her head and kiss.
2) what i do these days -- some unexpected time, just grab her and kiss her. while you're walkin.. do it. while you're in the car, pull over all of a sudden, park, and grab her. this way adds a lot of "explosive" passion in my opinion.

have fun.

-JP
 

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Hmm, I would suggest you kiss your girl on the first date next time.

Then you dont need to know how to get a kiss on the 2nd date :)
 

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This is the one that has a boyfriend I think the best thing for me to do is too walk away.
 

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I think this is the part where the moderator of the tips forum quotes my post and moves it to discussion:D and tells you to post right!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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