"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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any good tips on getting kisses on the 2nd date?

Jaun_Don

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I am seeing this really cute 21 year old later in the week, she rang me last night and asked me to go to a party but I couldn't anyways she wants to go the movies this week, last week's date was cool but this one I want to go in for the kiss and was wondering what your fave tips are on this?.

Yeah I am the same guy that just had all that bull**** go down with his room mates but I'm not focused on that anymore there is no point.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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yeah man i followed your posts about that room mate stuff. i'm glad you bounced back so fast, man. cheers.

there's a couple things in the bootcamp @ the bible that are worth reading i feel.

im no expert but, a couple things i like to do:

1) simple, tried and true -- just hold EC, lean in, hold the back of her head and kiss.
2) what i do these days -- some unexpected time, just grab her and kiss her. while you're walkin.. do it. while you're in the car, pull over all of a sudden, park, and grab her. this way adds a lot of "explosive" passion in my opinion.

have fun.

-JP
 

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Hmm, I would suggest you kiss your girl on the first date next time.

Then you dont need to know how to get a kiss on the 2nd date :)
 

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This is the one that has a boyfriend I think the best thing for me to do is too walk away.
 

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I think this is the part where the moderator of the tips forum quotes my post and moves it to discussion:D and tells you to post right!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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