"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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any good tips on getting kisses on the 2nd date?

Jaun_Don

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I am seeing this really cute 21 year old later in the week, she rang me last night and asked me to go to a party but I couldn't anyways she wants to go the movies this week, last week's date was cool but this one I want to go in for the kiss and was wondering what your fave tips are on this?.

Yeah I am the same guy that just had all that bull**** go down with his room mates but I'm not focused on that anymore there is no point.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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yeah man i followed your posts about that room mate stuff. i'm glad you bounced back so fast, man. cheers.

there's a couple things in the bootcamp @ the bible that are worth reading i feel.

im no expert but, a couple things i like to do:

1) simple, tried and true -- just hold EC, lean in, hold the back of her head and kiss.
2) what i do these days -- some unexpected time, just grab her and kiss her. while you're walkin.. do it. while you're in the car, pull over all of a sudden, park, and grab her. this way adds a lot of "explosive" passion in my opinion.

have fun.

-JP
 

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Hmm, I would suggest you kiss your girl on the first date next time.

Then you dont need to know how to get a kiss on the 2nd date :)
 

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This is the one that has a boyfriend I think the best thing for me to do is too walk away.
 

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I think this is the part where the moderator of the tips forum quotes my post and moves it to discussion:D and tells you to post right!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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