"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Any good banks out there?

DJ Logic

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I've had accounts with Chase, Citibank, Bank of America and Washington Mutual. Of these WaMu was the best before JP Morgan gobbled it up. The rest suck so hard it is embarassing. Hidden fees. Piss poor customer service. Outright lies to my face. I'm just tired of it.

Currently considering Capital One, TD Bank and PNC for a new account. Any recommendations? Bonus points for free checking, decent online experience and overdraft protection.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Epimanes

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Presidents choice financial (might be canada only, not sure). Free points towards groceries at superstore when you use their pc financial credit card. Not only that but if you buy your gas at the superstore gas bar you get like 6 cents per liter back in superstore bucks. All adds up fast. I don't pay a dime for any banking fees. www.pcfinancial.ca
 

Fatal Jay

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Perk street Financial cash is a great bank, they offer 2% cash back.
 

Fatal Jay

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I'm with a credit union, I have a friend who make perk street seem like its the all time best bank though.
 

Peaks&Valleys

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Anyone but Bank of America. Those guys are a bunch of shysters.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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