"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Any forums on how to be successful

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Zhen

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 6, 2004
Messages
62
Reaction score
0
Age
39
Location
Maryland, USA
no, so suave teaches you to be successful w/ women. i mean w/ other things like making money.
 

Sloopy

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 20, 2005
Messages
130
Reaction score
0
Age
43
Originally posted by Zhen
no, so suave teaches you to be successful w/ women. i mean w/ other things like making money.
Sosuave teaches you to be successful, period. Sosuave instills confidence which is really the main ingredient to all successful people. If you are confident and go after what you want, you will get it one way or another.

~Sloopy
 

nishbuk

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 30, 2004
Messages
535
Reaction score
3
Location
MTL
Originally posted by Sloopy
Sosuave teaches you to be successful, period. Sosuave instills confidence which is really the main ingredient to all successful people. If you are confident and go after what you want, you will get it one way or another.

~Sloopy
Yup...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Bible_Belt

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 27, 2005
Messages
17,576
Reaction score
6,358
Age
50
Location
midwestern cow field 40
Surely you know that your first task is to define "success." It means different things to many people. Even when a consensus may be reached about what "success" is, for example rich, famous, powerful, we might find that a lot of those people are miserable. Famous people have often gone from having nothing to having everything, yet many of them still self-destruct.

Is "success" the same as happiness?
 
Top