Apollo_Jordan
Don Juan
Cheers- I live in Taipei and am looking for wings over here- Luxy and all those places are nice- any true wings down to pick up on the ladies?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Any DJs in Taipei?
- Thread starter Apollo_Jordan
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Damian
Senior Don Juan
I'm actually ethnically from Taiwan and sometimes i visit. When i visit, maybe we can meet up and you can show me around the better sarging locations in Taipei.
-Damian
-Damian
Apollo_Jordan
Don Juan
One possible place for you to mack would be the Chientan Overseas Chinese Center- ever been there?
Haha I've been to Jiantan aka Loveboat... It is a hook-up spot for teenagers coming through the overseas Chinese program. I don't know if there is much action for those of us over 20 though...
Let me know if you have any other ideas... I am going to spend some time in Taiwan this spring.
Let me know if you have any other ideas... I am going to spend some time in Taiwan this spring.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.