"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Any difference between orgasm watching porn and orgasm sexting?

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Mentally, is it the same? Does it feel the same way to you guys? I have heard that excessive masturbation kinda turns your dopamine receptors into burned out things, but does it have the same effect when it's sexting?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If you cut out porn and masturbation completely, your erection quality when it comes down to actually banging a chick will skyrocket within a couple of weeks.
I have actually cut out porn and I intend to keep it that way, but sometimes, while talking to certain chicks, they make me hard as **** and it's a bit hard to ignore that completely.
 

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It's probably not AS bad as porn, but from my experience that would still be a waste that is just not needed.

Even after sex with a woman there is SOME effect, you lose your sexual energy for a short time but its outweighed by the experience.

Whats the benefit to jerking into a rag over some text messages?

Do you think thats what the warrior ancestors were doing?

Just my opinion but i personally wouldnt do it myself.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This no fapping thing.... I can see it being bad if your spanking it like a deranged monkey.... but...

I find that if I don't rub one out on a weekly basis and more importantly a day or so before a sex night hurts my performance. No fapping makes me a bit more sensitive and makes me want to *** too soon.

Everything in moderation.
 

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This no fapping thing.... I can see it being bad if your spanking it like a deranged monkey.... but...

I find that if I don't rub one out on a weekly basis and more importantly a day or so before a sex night hurts my performance. No fapping makes me a bit more sensitive and makes me want to *** too soon.

Everything in moderation.
Moderation is fine but only if you have NEVER been addicted to porn.

Having an addiction to it (which is actually quite common) causes actual brain changes which means once you come off it you have to stay off. I used to do it 3 times a day or more and it ****ed me up something chronic.

But for joe average who has never had a problem, once every 7-10 days is fine.

But you have to draw that distinction.

Its like you cant tell a former alcoholic that the odd drink isnt going to hurt you.

As for orgasming too fast, it happens to me sometimes but uts usually pretty funny and you are good to go again after a couple of minutes. As long as YOU dont have a problem with it the girl wont either.
 

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I only sexted once or twice when I was like 15-16. I can't get excited by that anymore. Maybe my imagination's just not as good, or having real sex just killed it.

I'm thinking of doing the nofap thing for a while, or at least greatly reducing frequency, like to once a week max.

I will say I did mostly enjoy having sex while watching porn last week (girl I'm fwb with doesn't care and let me do it). But unlike just whacking it, you can't just pause and go back when you want as you're doing it, and it's hard to time it exactly right. And you can't just stare at the screen the whole time; gotta devote some attention to the girl.
 

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nothing compares to having an orbiting orgasm aka orbitgasm.

every like you give a chick on social media = soiling yourself.
 

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Mentally, is it the same? Does it feel the same way to you guys? I have heard that excessive masturbation kinda turns your dopamine receptors into burned out things, but does it have the same effect when it's sexting?
According to my opinion: NOPE! Sexting is sexting, porn is porn, it is totally different and totally different influence our feelings/ behavior/etc, in short words: sexting with a REAL person should be much more exciting than just watching porn.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It's probably not AS bad as porn, but from my experience that would still be a waste that is just not needed.

Even after sex with a woman there is SOME effect, you lose your sexual energy for a short time but its outweighed by the experience.

Whats the benefit to jerking into a rag over some text messages?

Do you think thats what the warrior ancestors were doing?

Just my opinion but i personally wouldnt do it myself.
Warriors and cavemen could fvck a woman any time they wanted even if it was non consensual. There were no laws against it. These days guys can get sued for asking a woman on a date so a lot less sex it happening. Gotta release sexual energy somehow
 

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Warriors and cavemen could fvck a woman any time they wanted even if it was non consensual. There were no laws against it. These days guys can get sued for asking a woman on a date so a lot less sex it happening. Gotta release sexual energy somehow
Nice historical explanation bro :)
 

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Warriors and cavemen could fvck a woman any time they wanted even if it was non consensual. There were no laws against it. These days guys can get sued for asking a woman on a date so a lot less sex it happening. Gotta release sexual energy somehow
the more you do gym the less you need to fap
 

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Warriors and cavemen could fvck a woman any time they wanted even if it was non consensual. There were no laws against it. These days guys can get sued for asking a woman on a date so a lot less sex it happening. Gotta release sexual energy somehow
Well of course...of course. I mean, feminists have created this environment because who is gonna bang the fatties? And the uglies?
 

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Between the two I prefer sexting assuming its a woman I will get to bang or have already banged, and it generally is.

I think spanking it too much is bad but a few times a week is good. I also agree with spanking it prior to getting the real thing as it helps performance. If I am going to see a woman in the evening and get my freak on I will fap 3-8 hours before estimated liftoff.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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IDK, less mess?:p
 

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Well of course...of course. I mean, feminists have created this environment because who is gonna bang the fatties? And the uglies?
Nope, the white knights are to blame, for supporting, enabling, and empowering the feminists.

100% of the problem, is 100% at the top.
 

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Well of course...of course. I mean, feminists have created this environment because who is gonna bang the fatties? And the uglies?

Lol, this is good one! :)

I just looking around some old threads and didn't sow Your response when discussion was live, and now I see and I must to say that I agree with you :) :)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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