"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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any creative date ideas (that dont suck)?

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well, thanks to you guys i have a plethora of young ladies after me. i can get a date everynight of the week if i wasnt so broke. however, the movies get old after a while, and i'm working on this one chick and need to know: any good date ideas?

bowling and puttputt i guess u can do, but whats ur guys' favorite (not movies) date idea?? i'm desperate.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do a SEARCH...

(this topic comes up every week...)

But, try going for a walk, as long as your conversational skills are up to the task.
 
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since when does it really matter where u go on a date? unless u want 2 make it really special n look like all of them chumps n pay a fortune for a night at a 5 stars restaruant then come home n creep the hell out of her! try goin golfin with her! its great u can teach her how 2 golf! u should get some kino goin there...N if shes better then u at golfin tell her 2 teach U! lol
 
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My best date ideas come up spontaneously. I mean, I can remember taking this one chick to a movie and we end up walking around the mall talking for about 3 hours, and going to her house for a while. You can't really think about it too much, but like they always say, pick an action date. Chicks will judge you based on where you take em on a first date. For example, if you decide to see a movie, and it sucks bad, she's going to remember the date that way because the movie was terrible. But if you take her to the beach and you guys swim for a while, the sun's up, and she gets a tan, and you leave a pretty good impression of yourself, then she's going to remember you in a better way. Always remember though, you don't have to spend an enormous amount of money on a date to have a good time.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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^^^^ Going on walks always works
Once i made my date climb a cliff :D

However this can be a problem in the USA cus its hard to walk places without getting hit by a car
 
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