"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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any creative date ideas (that dont suck)?

dannowillbookem

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well, thanks to you guys i have a plethora of young ladies after me. i can get a date everynight of the week if i wasnt so broke. however, the movies get old after a while, and i'm working on this one chick and need to know: any good date ideas?

bowling and puttputt i guess u can do, but whats ur guys' favorite (not movies) date idea?? i'm desperate.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Do a SEARCH...

(this topic comes up every week...)

But, try going for a walk, as long as your conversational skills are up to the task.
 
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since when does it really matter where u go on a date? unless u want 2 make it really special n look like all of them chumps n pay a fortune for a night at a 5 stars restaruant then come home n creep the hell out of her! try goin golfin with her! its great u can teach her how 2 golf! u should get some kino goin there...N if shes better then u at golfin tell her 2 teach U! lol
 

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My best date ideas come up spontaneously. I mean, I can remember taking this one chick to a movie and we end up walking around the mall talking for about 3 hours, and going to her house for a while. You can't really think about it too much, but like they always say, pick an action date. Chicks will judge you based on where you take em on a first date. For example, if you decide to see a movie, and it sucks bad, she's going to remember the date that way because the movie was terrible. But if you take her to the beach and you guys swim for a while, the sun's up, and she gets a tan, and you leave a pretty good impression of yourself, then she's going to remember you in a better way. Always remember though, you don't have to spend an enormous amount of money on a date to have a good time.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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^^^^ Going on walks always works
Once i made my date climb a cliff :D

However this can be a problem in the USA cus its hard to walk places without getting hit by a car
 
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