"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Any chick ever say you look like a celebrity?

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Tonight some chick said I look like Peyton Manning. I was too busy to bother so I said: Ok.

I've also been compared to Eminem and....Owen Wilson (which I don't consider a compliment.)

Not that it makes a difference. Just felt like making a new topic other than reading the usual whining that goes on here..
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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no, but some have said that I "have the body of a Greek God, am beautiful, etc. Others have said that I am "one in a million". :) That's plenty good enough for my ego, how about yours? :)
 

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metoo said:
no, but some have said that I "have the body of a Greek God, am beautiful, etc. Others have said that I am "one in a million". :) That's plenty good enough for my ego, how about yours? :)

I get called handsome a lot by chicks I work with thought I never let that chit go to my head...actually my previous ex's friend came up to me in a bar when I just before I met her and told me: "My friend thinks you're beautiful." And my ex was pretty friggin hot. That kindof blew my mind because I consider myself an average dude.
 

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Bossman90 said:
Why do you care?
I profusely apologize. Let's get back to our regularly scheduled whine fest. Why did the HB8.5 and 3/4ths make me wait a whole fifteen minutes to respond to my alpha texting skillzz?? Does she like me??
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Lol @ Naughty Ninja. Alpha texting skilzz :p.

A chick said I looked like Johnny Depp last week though. TBH I wasn't really moved by it, and then she asked me if I had heard that line before. I said yes I have ;).

People tell me I look like an actor all the time though. Not really a bad look to have I guess.

When I work I just wait for the girls to get drunk and see if I get any compliments and that way I'll know whether I look good or not :p. When I go out clubbing I just check to see if I register in their Reticular Activation System. If they're looking at me in the corner of their eye, lol, or if they twist their hips when they walk by me or give me a perfect view of their cleavage. I used to think it was accidental when I got a full frontal view into a girl's cleavage, but believe me when I tell you that they do it on when they like a guy.
 

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At least 100 people have told me I look like Judge Reinhold. I've been hearing that since 1984. I used to hear Nicholas Cage all the time, at least 25 people have said that.
 
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I've been told by quite a few people I look like a young Al Pachino...I don't really see it but I take it as a compliment.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I got told I look like Dave Chapelle back in the 6th grade. I also got told I look like Lebron James a few days ago if that counts for anything...
 

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One in school was always saying I look like Matt Damon and another recently said I look like the guy who plays Mr. Darcy in Lost in Austen.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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RedZone said:
I've been told by quite a few people I look like a young Al Pachino...I don't really see it but I take it as a compliment.

My cousins also seem to think I llike a young Robert Deniro.
 

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Some dude on Wednesday told me I look like Nomar Garciaparra. Then some girl next to him said I did, but my nose wasn't insanely large (even though I think it is on the bigger side).

One girl told me I look like Freddie Prinze Jr... eh...
 

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Yes, cristiano ronaldo... Actually now I see him and think holy crap he does look like me! LOL. I can post some pics if someone cares.
 

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It's so funny to read this post, because I actually was told that I look like the R&B singer Ne-Yo today (which I get fairly often, but I don't take as a compliment either).
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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