"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Any chance to have a limited access area only for regulars to talk freely?

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I like mingling with the young ones. Keeps me sharp as I get older, and keeps me from getting too jaded.

However, I do suspect there's already a secret board somewhere. If you don't know about it, you ain't in the club.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I like mingling with the young ones. Keeps me sharp as I get older, and keeps me from getting too jaded.

However, I do suspect there's already a secret board somewhere. If you don't know about it, you ain't in the club.
We meant one without people wearing capes and playing with compasses or wearing lates and playing with....
 

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I like mingling with the young ones. Keeps me sharp as I get older, and keeps me from getting too jaded.

However, I do suspect there's already a secret board somewhere. If you don't know about it, you ain't in the club.
Yes. You must do exactly 27 back flips within 2:36 seconds in order for the new board to appear. Please make sure your camera can see you so the site can verify your back flips in the allotted time to enable access on your account.
 

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I do realize this is not possible. Because sosuave.net might be a good free source, all you needis here, but keep in mind there is sosuave.com and it is a shop. They have to keep everything everywhere inline with mainstream.

Another thing is do you want to be with the mainstream? I remind you, I left US for Russia back in 2010 just because of this. Back then “it” was just a conspiracy theory. Now it is mainstream. Damn boys, if you would just watch Russian TV and understand the language, it’s Alex Jones mainstream and everyone agrees with Mr Jones. Figuratively speaking.

You folks are spiraling towards your own destruction, no war needed, from within.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I do realize this is not possible. Because sosuave.net might be a good free source, all you needis here, but keep in mind there is sosuave.com and it is a shop. They have to keep everything everywhere inline with mainstream.

Another thing is do you want to be with the mainstream? I remind you, I left US for Russia back in 2010 just because of this. Back then “it” was just a conspiracy theory. Now it is mainstream. Damn boys, if you would just watch Russian TV and understand the language, it’s Alex Jones mainstream and everyone agrees with Mr Jones. Figuratively speaking.

You folks are spiraling towards your own destruction, no war needed, from within.
Planning my exit. No joke.
 

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Any mod bother to reply? Is this tinder?

Damn ghosted even from sosuave mods....
To be fair, it may be more of a technical limitation with the forum software that may not have a feature like that, that could facilitate it in the way the mods/us want. Plus there are probably other ramifications that a lot of us haven't thought through because we aren't ulitimately held accountable.
 

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Any mod bother to reply? Is this tinder?

Damn ghosted even from sosuave mods....
Because your solution must not address their real motivations for why they take down controversial threads.
 

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I do realize this is not possible. Because sosuave.net might be a good free source, all you needis here, but keep in mind there is sosuave.com and it is a shop. They have to keep everything everywhere inline with mainstream.

Another thing is do you want to be with the mainstream? I remind you, I left US for Russia back in 2010 just because of this. Back then “it” was just a conspiracy theory. Now it is mainstream. Damn boys, if you would just watch Russian TV and understand the language, it’s Alex Jones mainstream and everyone agrees with Mr Jones. Figuratively speaking.

You folks are spiraling towards your own destruction, no war needed, from within.
See how the Russian media manipulates you? Keeps you thinking everything is a conspiracy, thus you hate the U.S. and everything else that isn't Russian.

Nobody in the U.S. is ever punished for politics unless you have something to lose, which tells you it's all about jealousy. Once you get rich, who cares about politics, you can say what you want, like Trump. So, if you want to make money in the mainstream, lay low until you make it. Keep your wealth hidden. And once you have enough, f*ck everybody.

That's how it's done. Brains, wit, logic. Use it, God gave it to you as a man.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This won't solve anything @Who Dares Win

As there are plenty of weak-minded veteran posters, that would savor the chance to spoil it for eveyone else.

This forum has no place for insults. I get it...

Even friendly jabs - meant to jar a person from their stupor - are reprehensible. I get it...

Turning into loveshack...

Ok, that's cool.

What's the point of this website again?

Lmao

Whodares, you would have to create a sub-forum that only selected men with a set of nuts.

Edit - and there couldn't be a "report post" option, as women are drawn to it
 
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This won't solve anything @Who Dares Win

As there are plenty of weak-minded veteran posters, that would savor the chance to spoil it for eveyone else.

This forum has no place for insults. I get it...

Even friendly jabs - meant to jar a person from their stupor - are reprehensible. I get it...

Turning into loveshack...

Ok, that's cool.

What's the point of this website again?

Lmao

Whodares, you would have to create a sub-forum that only selected men with a set of nuts.

Edit - and there couldn't be a "report post" option, as women are drawn to it
The point is not grant a free for all area where to insult each other but simply an area to talk about politics or hot topics that cant be deal in public...not because of the users but because of potential reports given the witch hunt environment in 2020.
 

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Mods, by now most (if not all) of you have seen this posting.

I'm thinking that at least some of the moderators are a bit conflicted; on one hand you have a duty to reduce conflict... and on the other, you also hate being responsible for censoring free thought and expression.

The idea proposed would provide a better balance of the two, don't ya'll (moderators) think?

Currently, I'm wondering why the mods that appear trigger happy to lock threads are now appearing rather 'gun shy' at responding or having a willingness to meet half way. Hmmm....
 

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I'm thinking that at least some of the moderators are a bit conflicted; on one hand you have a duty to reduce conflict... and on the other, you also hate being responsible for censoring free thought and expression.
I'm guessing something like this wouldn't be up to the mods, but rather the owner of the site.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This Forum exists for a definite purpose. It’s not to talk politics, insult others, have pointless arguments or anything else prohibited by the Forum Rules. There are many other sites out there that handle those types of altercations/discussions and we enjoy the freedom to join more than one forum. Each with its own purpose.
Does that clear things up gentlemen?
 

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This Forum exists for a definite purpose. It’s not to talk politics, insult others, have pointless arguments or anything else prohibited by the Forum Rules. There are many other sites out there that handle those types of altercations/discussions and we enjoy the freedom to join more than one forum. Each with its own purpose.
Does that clear things up gentlemen?
Not to be as ass but is this your opinion or the entire mods squad?
 

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Not to be as ass but is this your opinion or the entire mods squad?
The Moderation team enforces the Forum Rules and Bans members that can’t play by the rules or have exceeded civilized behavior.
You want a sandbox to play in where said rules don’t apply. How far do you think that’s going to fly …
 

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The Moderation team enforces the Forum Rules and Bans members that can’t play by the rules or have exceeded civilized behavior.
You want a sandbox to play in where said rules don’t apply. How far do you think that’s going to fly …
Not much actually if I have to be honest but guess its worth to make appeal to the supreme court anyway given that other parties seem to support my petition.

Who is the admin of the site?
 

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This Forum exists for a definite purpose. It’s not to talk politics, insult others, have pointless arguments or anything else prohibited by the Forum Rules. There are many other sites out there that handle those types of altercations/discussions and we enjoy the freedom to join more than one forum. Each with its own purpose.
Does that clear things up gentlemen?
Well, since you asked. Not really.

As men, (the ones with backbones, that is) we've been known to demonstrate civility as well as have conflicts. To cite an example; conflicts also occur within advice about women. Conflict is conflict, .. Right? . The peculiarity though... is that the heavy-handedness of locking threads appears more prevalent when it's subject matter that appears too delicate for men.

If this is really about reducing conflicts, then why do mods appear to take a blind eye to the chest-thumpers that put down the new(er) forum members? Perhaps the mods are issuing 'warnings' behind the scenes? Not much seems to have changed on that front. I'd think that this would be a higher priority (wanting newer members to feel welcomed) than some old-timers having a measuring contest.

Among the sosuave forum options, there's one called "Anything Else." If certain discussions are locked down, then is this really a place to discuss "anything else?" Perhaps "Anything Else" should be changed to "anything that doesn't upset the powers that be?"
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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