Any chance of recovering from this?

[Hyper2010]

Following situation just occurred...

Spoke to girl I have been seeing for 2 months just now on phone. She broke it off 2 days ago after receiving a message from her ex which left her all over the place. She's told me today she would like to be friends for time being, but not to burn my bridges and see what happens in the future.

For now she just wants o be on her own.

Going tho enforce immediate NC until she misses me and comes to her senses

Any ideas or opinions on this?

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[thatfeel]

Really? 2 months and she breaks it off in a HEART BEAT because of some random text/message from an ex? NC and if she texts, your only concern should be ****ing her. So if she texts and you go "Wanna ****?" and she denies you, ****it. Definitely not LTR material.

 

[Hyper2010]

That's right. When we met she came a cross as really strong and confident,yet she falls to bits after 1 contact from her ex.

By not going NC I think I'm humoring her behaviour and lack of better judgement

I am also questioning why she didn't reject him flat out and say No Sorry I've met someone else!

 

[TheException]

Really? 2 months and she breaks it off in a HEART BEAT because of some random text/message from an ex?

Common scenario. 2Months w/ new guy < "x" years/months with exbf

Going tho enforce immediate NC until she misses me and comes to her senses

No. Wrong mindset. You should be laughing at her for choosing some ex boyfriend over you. Chances are if it didnt work out before....it wont work out with him now. But thats none of your concern now.....I wouldnt delete her number but I sure as he11 would never even think about initiating any sort of contact or be "yearning/hoping" for her to contact you.

Move on and find other interested girls.

 

[Big Nuts]

NC immediately, to pine after her would simply make her laugh at you....if she comes back after "coming to her senses", sodomize with extreme prejudice.