"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Any chance of recovering from this?

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Following situation just occurred...

Spoke to girl I have been seeing for 2 months just now on phone. She broke it off 2 days ago after receiving a message from her ex which left her all over the place. She's told me today she would like to be friends for time being, but not to burn my bridges and see what happens in the future.

For now she just wants o be on her own.

Going tho enforce immediate NC until she misses me and comes to her senses

Any ideas or opinions on this?

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Really? 2 months and she breaks it off in a HEART BEAT because of some random text/message from an ex? NC and if she texts, your only concern should be ****ing her. So if she texts and you go "Wanna ****?" and she denies you, ****it. Definitely not LTR material.
 
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That's right. When we met she came a cross as really strong and confident,yet she falls to bits after 1 contact from her ex.

By not going NC I think I'm humoring her behaviour and lack of better judgement

I am also questioning why she didn't reject him flat out and say No Sorry I've met someone else!
 
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thatfeel said:
Really? 2 months and she breaks it off in a HEART BEAT because of some random text/message from an ex?
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Common scenario. 2Months w/ new guy < "x" years/months with exbf

Hyper2010 said:
Going tho enforce immediate NC until she misses me and comes to her senses
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No. Wrong mindset. You should be laughing at her for choosing some ex boyfriend over you. Chances are if it didnt work out before....it wont work out with him now. But thats none of your concern now.....I wouldnt delete her number but I sure as he11 would never even think about initiating any sort of contact or be "yearning/hoping" for her to contact you.

Move on and find other interested girls.
 
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NC immediately, to pine after her would simply make her laugh at you....if she comes back after "coming to her senses", sodomize with extreme prejudice.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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