"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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any advise?

S0LID

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Ok my dj ing is going better.

met this grl of the net 2 weeks ago, kissed her but I can do better so I didnt bother continuing.

not I'm meeting this hb7.5 Monday, which is a bank holiday but shes bringing a friend so there'll be a 3rd wheel. Only been talking to her since monday. I know some people she knows and the said shes nice, plus shes in school next to my college (shes 16). As it's a bank holiday We're meeting near her home, 5 min drive away.

I'm trying to get 1 of my mates to come with so there wont be a third wheel. I'll probably keep the meeting to an 1-2 hours max.

convo advise?

Will it be easier if it's 3 or 4? should I try for a kiss at the end.

Also theres this grl I know who is also a hb8 who my friend is gonna tell her I like her. Cause he knows her well and I hardly ever see her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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S0LID

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yeah thanks man but i think it's jus cause its her first time meeting some1 off the net. I havn't been talking to her long either, only since Monday and not even long convos.

If she did wanna be friends she wouldnt bother meeting me lol

and if for some bazzar reason she does i'm sure i can brake down that barrier ;)
 

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Tao of Steve!

"If she did wanna be friends she wouldnt bother meeting me lol"

That does not mean that you won't wind up in 'LJBF land' later on if you don't play it cool. Just remember to let her do most of the talking, don't interrupt her (unless she's being a c*nt), and don't bring up sex. You want to make her feel safe and secure, so don't be sleezy.

Your job is to probe her:)p ) as she is talking. So listen carefully to what she says (its hard, I know), and keep her going on and on about herself. Remember, women only care about themselves. So try to keep the subject on her without kissing her @$$.

If you remember to play it like a Steve, you'll do fine. Better than fine, actually~


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Forget all the fancy luv potions & crystal ballz these foolz is sellin'. Bring a friend & it will send the correct message.

You need to move forward so try & git deep in that skull with her personal **** but keep the wave positive & the flow upbeat.

By bringing a friend you isolate her & break her off from her comfort zone as long as your bro knowz what 2 do.

If he don't know what 2 do (isolate her friend) or if the girl aint playin right start flirting subtly with her friend, maybe even a little touchie-feelie shyt.

Either the friend will go 4 U or it will correct the original girl's attitude. Go 4 tha win/win scenario------->stack tha deck yo!

Wherever the river flows keep the discussion focussed on the ladies. Not you guys. Look at this as conversation experience rather than focusing on getting this one broad. Ah8?
 

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Originally posted by macknetikcharm
Forget all the fancy luv potions & crystal ballz these foolz is sellin'. Bring a friend & it will send the correct message.

You need to move forward so try & git deep in that skull with her personal **** but keep the wave positive & the flow upbeat.

By bringing a friend you isolate her & break her off from her comfort zone as long as your bro knowz what 2 do.

If he don't know what 2 do (isolate her friend) or if the girl aint playin right start flirting subtly with her friend, maybe even a little touchie-feelie shyt.

Either the friend will go 4 U or it will correct the original girl's attitude. Go 4 tha win/win scenario------->stack tha deck yo!

Wherever the river flows keep the discussion focussed on the ladies. Not you guys. Look at this as conversation experience rather than focusing on getting this one broad. Ah8?
macknetik charm got it.

You also mentioned that your friend is going to tell a girl that you like her. Don't do that. Abosolutely positively unequivacally DO NOT DO THAT! Ask her out the next time you see her or arrange some meeting through your friend. Do not say to a girl that you like her and you haven't even met. That is just lame.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Nah I've met her about 5 times he's jus getting her msn form me.
 
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