"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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S0LID

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Ok my dj ing is going better.

met this grl of the net 2 weeks ago, kissed her but I can do better so I didnt bother continuing.

not I'm meeting this hb7.5 Monday, which is a bank holiday but shes bringing a friend so there'll be a 3rd wheel. Only been talking to her since monday. I know some people she knows and the said shes nice, plus shes in school next to my college (shes 16). As it's a bank holiday We're meeting near her home, 5 min drive away.

I'm trying to get 1 of my mates to come with so there wont be a third wheel. I'll probably keep the meeting to an 1-2 hours max.

convo advise?

Will it be easier if it's 3 or 4? should I try for a kiss at the end.

Also theres this grl I know who is also a hb8 who my friend is gonna tell her I like her. Cause he knows her well and I hardly ever see her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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yeah thanks man but i think it's jus cause its her first time meeting some1 off the net. I havn't been talking to her long either, only since Monday and not even long convos.

If she did wanna be friends she wouldnt bother meeting me lol

and if for some bazzar reason she does i'm sure i can brake down that barrier ;)
 

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Tao of Steve!

"If she did wanna be friends she wouldnt bother meeting me lol"

That does not mean that you won't wind up in 'LJBF land' later on if you don't play it cool. Just remember to let her do most of the talking, don't interrupt her (unless she's being a c*nt), and don't bring up sex. You want to make her feel safe and secure, so don't be sleezy.

Your job is to probe her:)p ) as she is talking. So listen carefully to what she says (its hard, I know), and keep her going on and on about herself. Remember, women only care about themselves. So try to keep the subject on her without kissing her @$$.

If you remember to play it like a Steve, you'll do fine. Better than fine, actually~


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Forget all the fancy luv potions & crystal ballz these foolz is sellin'. Bring a friend & it will send the correct message.

You need to move forward so try & git deep in that skull with her personal **** but keep the wave positive & the flow upbeat.

By bringing a friend you isolate her & break her off from her comfort zone as long as your bro knowz what 2 do.

If he don't know what 2 do (isolate her friend) or if the girl aint playin right start flirting subtly with her friend, maybe even a little touchie-feelie shyt.

Either the friend will go 4 U or it will correct the original girl's attitude. Go 4 tha win/win scenario------->stack tha deck yo!

Wherever the river flows keep the discussion focussed on the ladies. Not you guys. Look at this as conversation experience rather than focusing on getting this one broad. Ah8?
 

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Originally posted by macknetikcharm
Forget all the fancy luv potions & crystal ballz these foolz is sellin'. Bring a friend & it will send the correct message.

You need to move forward so try & git deep in that skull with her personal **** but keep the wave positive & the flow upbeat.

By bringing a friend you isolate her & break her off from her comfort zone as long as your bro knowz what 2 do.

If he don't know what 2 do (isolate her friend) or if the girl aint playin right start flirting subtly with her friend, maybe even a little touchie-feelie shyt.

Either the friend will go 4 U or it will correct the original girl's attitude. Go 4 tha win/win scenario------->stack tha deck yo!

Wherever the river flows keep the discussion focussed on the ladies. Not you guys. Look at this as conversation experience rather than focusing on getting this one broad. Ah8?
macknetik charm got it.

You also mentioned that your friend is going to tell a girl that you like her. Don't do that. Abosolutely positively unequivacally DO NOT DO THAT! Ask her out the next time you see her or arrange some meeting through your friend. Do not say to a girl that you like her and you haven't even met. That is just lame.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Nah I've met her about 5 times he's jus getting her msn form me.
 
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