"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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blueRave

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Hey this is my first post on this site, yet i've been a fan of it for quite some time. so Here is my story.
I took some chick HB 7.5 out to the mall with me to get something for me. After we got it we were walking around we stopped to eat. Hit it off nice there, and basically i could tell she was diggin me. so after all that i tell her im taking her home. I drop her off and i gave her hug and thats it. My question is how do I/how should I proceed to get a LAY. Also later that night she texted me. I actually also made out with her days before the date if that makes things easier.

Im thinking of another date during this week so any tips on what i could do would be appreciated.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mtlwlu

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Action dates, pool, bowling, mini golf, anywhere you can get even a bit of kino in. Should proceed naturally from there, dont think too much be spontaneous.
 

scrouds

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So you've kissed her already? Any reason you went backwards on this last date?
 

Allurre

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Go for an action date next. Something conducive for physical rapport building. Then, escalate. Get more personal while you're with her now.

Also, my best piece of advice for your situation now is to STOP thinking about getting laid. Think about having FUN, and creating memorable moments with her.

Sex will eventually happen, even when most unexpected.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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