"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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blueRave

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Hey this is my first post on this site, yet i've been a fan of it for quite some time. so Here is my story.
I took some chick HB 7.5 out to the mall with me to get something for me. After we got it we were walking around we stopped to eat. Hit it off nice there, and basically i could tell she was diggin me. so after all that i tell her im taking her home. I drop her off and i gave her hug and thats it. My question is how do I/how should I proceed to get a LAY. Also later that night she texted me. I actually also made out with her days before the date if that makes things easier.

Im thinking of another date during this week so any tips on what i could do would be appreciated.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mtlwlu

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Action dates, pool, bowling, mini golf, anywhere you can get even a bit of kino in. Should proceed naturally from there, dont think too much be spontaneous.
 

scrouds

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So you've kissed her already? Any reason you went backwards on this last date?
 

Allurre

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Go for an action date next. Something conducive for physical rapport building. Then, escalate. Get more personal while you're with her now.

Also, my best piece of advice for your situation now is to STOP thinking about getting laid. Think about having FUN, and creating memorable moments with her.

Sex will eventually happen, even when most unexpected.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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