"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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blueRave

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Hey this is my first post on this site, yet i've been a fan of it for quite some time. so Here is my story.
I took some chick HB 7.5 out to the mall with me to get something for me. After we got it we were walking around we stopped to eat. Hit it off nice there, and basically i could tell she was diggin me. so after all that i tell her im taking her home. I drop her off and i gave her hug and thats it. My question is how do I/how should I proceed to get a LAY. Also later that night she texted me. I actually also made out with her days before the date if that makes things easier.

Im thinking of another date during this week so any tips on what i could do would be appreciated.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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mtlwlu

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Action dates, pool, bowling, mini golf, anywhere you can get even a bit of kino in. Should proceed naturally from there, dont think too much be spontaneous.
 

scrouds

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So you've kissed her already? Any reason you went backwards on this last date?
 

Allurre

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Go for an action date next. Something conducive for physical rapport building. Then, escalate. Get more personal while you're with her now.

Also, my best piece of advice for your situation now is to STOP thinking about getting laid. Think about having FUN, and creating memorable moments with her.

Sex will eventually happen, even when most unexpected.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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