sup guys, long time reader of the forums. Ive got a question for real relationships, everything seems to be short term for me. I love the game but I think i might be lacking something. So heres my situation, my primary pickup place are the clubs and i do pretty well, great social value and a good amount of numbers. However wen i go on the dates, there always no chemistry and i try kino but its just not the same as in a club, I dunno wat it is. THe chicks not into it and then im not into it.
Im 21 now and basically all ive ever had were flings and nothing real. Most of the times the girls see me as a fun guy, friend or just a **** buddy, but not bf material. The only form of advice ive gotten from frends were that im too ****y, but i think thats not the problem, neither are looks and dressing sense. Most of my friends all have gotten into some kind of real realtionship and im beginning to think that somethings wrong wit me. So what do you guys think im lacking in terms of havin a girl seeing as a long termish material? I still consider myself pretty much an afc so any advice i can get would be coool. thnx
p.s. I mostly pickup outside a club/bar bcuz anywere else its much harder and the # of girls u get are fewer, plus every wud knw u specially if ur doin it at skool or work.
Im 21 now and basically all ive ever had were flings and nothing real. Most of the times the girls see me as a fun guy, friend or just a **** buddy, but not bf material. The only form of advice ive gotten from frends were that im too ****y, but i think thats not the problem, neither are looks and dressing sense. Most of my friends all have gotten into some kind of real realtionship and im beginning to think that somethings wrong wit me. So what do you guys think im lacking in terms of havin a girl seeing as a long termish material? I still consider myself pretty much an afc so any advice i can get would be coool. thnx
p.s. I mostly pickup outside a club/bar bcuz anywere else its much harder and the # of girls u get are fewer, plus every wud knw u specially if ur doin it at skool or work.