"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Any advice for a second go?

YoDJYouMyDJ

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First, let me say I am in high school but that forum's slow so I figured I'd post it here.

Alright. First let me say I'm a senior and this girl is a junior. So I have a free period the same as hers and we're always talking flirting, whatever. A couple weeks ago, there's this winter dance, and I see her there. She beckons me over, starts flirting, batting her eyes etc. I'll e honest here: I was pretty tipsy and she was pulling the usual "I'm so drunk" routine (whether she was or not I dunno).

Anyway, I say "let's dance." and we start dancing. After like one song she takes my hands, and puts them directly on her ass. Then she takes her hands, puts them around my neck, pulling me closer. At this point, I'm like "damn, I'm set." So we start kissing for maybe ten seconds. At the end of the song (we had already been dancing for like 4-5 songs) she says "I have to go to the bathroom" and leaves. I don't see her for the rest of the night.

Now I feel awkward seeing her b/c of what happened. Was I out of line? I mean it felt natural, not like I was pushing it or anything. Also, we have this dance coming up where an upperclassman is supposed to ask someone younger and I want to ask her, but now I don't know if I can. I mean she's really cute and funny and I want to take her.

The only thing I can think of is she was reluctant to kiss me at the dance b/c her brother's in my grade. What do you all think? Thanks!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Desdinova

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Are you looking for a relationship, or are you looking for fun? If you're looking for a relationship, you're not going to start one out of the blue. If you're looking for fun, you won't be too upset if she turns you down.

Go ahead and ask her, but don't expect her to become your girlfriend.
 

Tha Realnezz

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Highschoolers can't be players.That whole forum should be dissolved.

Girls are too fvcking flaky. I don't reccomend macking chics from school when you still aren't a Senior or older than them.

She sounds like she's ready to get popped though.The fact that she went to bathroom signals she was gonna get ready and got the shakes and bounced.

Go for it though you never know.

90% she'll flake and you'll be back here steaming mad...lol.

I know what it was like in HS,too many flakes and super-b!tches.

I reccomend young chics for you my nigga.If it wasn't for them I would have been a very frustrated negroe right about now.
 
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