"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Any advice for a flirtaholic?

petah2001

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I feel like I'm falling into a very familiar trap. I've started a new term at a new university, engineering school to be exact. By some stroke of luck I've met two very intriguing women which is truly a lucky occasions considering engineering is a sausage fest and most women are ugly.

It's like a dream come true, both of the girls are gorgeous. One of them is blonde with icy blue eyes, and an athletic body. (girl A) The other is a dark haired beauty with a body with phenomenal proportions. (girl B) Both of them are smart and geeky, a huge turn on for me.

Being the attractive and affectionate person I am, I immediately went on the offense. I initiated some light kino, strong eye contact and some suggestive conversation. They responded positively and now I am constantly exchanging flirts with them.

The problem. They both have boyfriends. Girl A is in an 8 month relationship and girl B lives with her boyfriend.

All of this flirting has been perhaps hurtful. Two things can possibly go wrong.
-They live on with their boyfriends and just use me for extra attention
-I pose no challenge for them
-Friend zone

I am very aware of these problems at all times but I can't help it. These are some of the most attractive girls I have ever met. Sadly, as an engineering student, I spend my entire life doing homework and attending classes so they are the only girls I socialize with on a regular basis. I intend to change this ASAP but I still don't want to fail with these girls.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ace of Flames

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I think I heard someplace that a boyfriend is just an extra obstacle. No ring = go for it, or something similar. Wonder where...?

In other words, play dirty and steal one away from her guy, if you want. Just be ready to take whatever might come. If she'll leave him for you, she'll probably leave you for another guy in the future, or so they say...
 

petah2001

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You know that's the type of response I've been getting from everybody so far. Hell even my mother encouraged this. (every once in awhile my mom asks me if I've met any girls at school, laugh if you want) I've noticed that even the most well behaved and moral people will play dirty in the dating game.

I would assume Girl B to be a potential target. I've noticed some interesting behavior from her in the past.
-She looks forward to the day that her boyfriend goes out of town for the holidays. She claimed that he can be a bit of a "ball and chain" at times.
-During the last class of the day we were *****ing about how long of a day it had been and she said "I'm sooo tired, I cannot wait to go home and cuddle with my.......... (long awkward pause)...... pillow.....
-We were sitting at a desk once doing some work and I discretely brushed my leg up against hers. She immediately recoiled and said "Peter! I have a boyfriend!!.... hahaha just kidding"

could it get any more tempting than this? Problem is how could she ever leave her boyfriend, she would have nowhere to live and she's only 19.
 
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