"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Any advice for a flirtaholic?

petah2001

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I feel like I'm falling into a very familiar trap. I've started a new term at a new university, engineering school to be exact. By some stroke of luck I've met two very intriguing women which is truly a lucky occasions considering engineering is a sausage fest and most women are ugly.

It's like a dream come true, both of the girls are gorgeous. One of them is blonde with icy blue eyes, and an athletic body. (girl A) The other is a dark haired beauty with a body with phenomenal proportions. (girl B) Both of them are smart and geeky, a huge turn on for me.

Being the attractive and affectionate person I am, I immediately went on the offense. I initiated some light kino, strong eye contact and some suggestive conversation. They responded positively and now I am constantly exchanging flirts with them.

The problem. They both have boyfriends. Girl A is in an 8 month relationship and girl B lives with her boyfriend.

All of this flirting has been perhaps hurtful. Two things can possibly go wrong.
-They live on with their boyfriends and just use me for extra attention
-I pose no challenge for them
-Friend zone

I am very aware of these problems at all times but I can't help it. These are some of the most attractive girls I have ever met. Sadly, as an engineering student, I spend my entire life doing homework and attending classes so they are the only girls I socialize with on a regular basis. I intend to change this ASAP but I still don't want to fail with these girls.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ace of Flames

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I think I heard someplace that a boyfriend is just an extra obstacle. No ring = go for it, or something similar. Wonder where...?

In other words, play dirty and steal one away from her guy, if you want. Just be ready to take whatever might come. If she'll leave him for you, she'll probably leave you for another guy in the future, or so they say...
 

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You know that's the type of response I've been getting from everybody so far. Hell even my mother encouraged this. (every once in awhile my mom asks me if I've met any girls at school, laugh if you want) I've noticed that even the most well behaved and moral people will play dirty in the dating game.

I would assume Girl B to be a potential target. I've noticed some interesting behavior from her in the past.
-She looks forward to the day that her boyfriend goes out of town for the holidays. She claimed that he can be a bit of a "ball and chain" at times.
-During the last class of the day we were *****ing about how long of a day it had been and she said "I'm sooo tired, I cannot wait to go home and cuddle with my.......... (long awkward pause)...... pillow.....
-We were sitting at a desk once doing some work and I discretely brushed my leg up against hers. She immediately recoiled and said "Peter! I have a boyfriend!!.... hahaha just kidding"

could it get any more tempting than this? Problem is how could she ever leave her boyfriend, she would have nowhere to live and she's only 19.
 
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