"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Any actors?

tristan22

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I'm just curious if anyone here is trying to break into Hollywood? A friend of mine, moved out to LA 3 years ago--and he has yet to find work. Should he keep after his goal?

I'm amazed at just how many talentless people make it big in Hollwood. What do they have over actors who studied and crafted his/her skill?

Is it luck, timing, or what?

I'm not a big movie buff, so fill me in.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'll tell you what it is- it aint talent or skill or looks or anything- its contacts. its simply who you know.

'Oh you looking for an acting job?' says youre producer friend. 'Yeah ill see if i can get you in somewhere'

If you want more proof of this just check out the whole Hollywood dynasty thing- Nicholas Cage is Francis Ford Coppola's nephew, and Sofia Coppola is his daughter. Gwyneth Paltrow's related by law to Steven Spielberg and George Clooney's dad owns a TV station.

The worst actor in our school drama class now has a permanent spot on a major Aussie soap, simply because he had mates on the show. I've been on the same show a couple times myself, but only as an extra.
 

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I guess Hollywood is just like the real world then. I'm just amazed how rich they make some of the most talentless people.
Celebrities basically live a rent free existance.


.........I still don't believe the Brad Pitt story. He left college 1 credit hour short of graduating, to pursue a career in acting. :rolleyes:

Are you planning on moving to the US or can you make lots of money acting in your country?
 

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It's not impossible But...

it is close enough.

If you just want to be a working actor, which is only 3% of all actors in the unions, you had better be good looking, talented, and driven. Most people do not qualify in any of those areas. So I would only do it if you really had the desire because you will be giving up everything in order to survive. This is why most actors turn into demanding drama queens once they succeed as a way of dealing with all the rejection thay had to deal with early in theri career.
 

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I guess Hollywood is just like the real world then. I'm just amazed how rich they make some of themost talentless people.
Tristan, I've noticed 50% of your posts tend to b!tch about successful people. First you say all the rich businessmen don't deserve their money, now you're whining about Hollywood celebs.

Maybe you'd be more successful if you stopped whining.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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^^^^^^^^^^^
It is funny, just how threatened you are by me. Get off my jock fuk face!

Let's see.

1. 2nd year law student

2. Successful Real Estate Agent.

3. Yes your right, i'm not successful!
 

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I would place my life on the line, that you would keep your little yap shut and not say 1 negative word to me, if we ever met.

Your a typical internet b#tch.

That's right, poor college student...who's bit#hing now?
 

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Everyone's a successful millionaire on the internet.

But if you're so successful, why the whining?
 

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Success, is in the eye of the beholder fuk head!

You are pretty pathetic, poor college boy! LIke i said, i would pound the fuk out of you, if you insulted me in person!

Look how many posts you have dumba$$. Do you not have a life outside of SS? No, your too busy posting about your sorry "poor" college student existance!


.......who said i'm a millionaire?
 

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I would place my life on the line, that you would keep your little yap shut and not say 1 negative word to me, if we ever met.
That's because you'd be b1tching too much for me to get a word in.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ha ha ha ha ha:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

i love the guys that all of a sudden feel insulted and start thretning sh1t; "oh i'm gona kik your ass, brak your legs, stick your head back up your azz, snap your fingers off, bust your head open.....":crackup: :crackup:

and the best way to deal with them, turn around and nail them to the ground.:crackup: :crackup: all of a sudden they got this expresion on their face, as to say "wtf???"

sorry, this little flaim war brought back memories.


If your friend is a chick, chances are, after a while she will end up doing porn. Profesional Actors are, emotionaly unstable (one of the reasons nobody in hollywood can have a healthy relationship). When it comes to the looks; not only do you need to be decent looking, but you also have to be different then everybody else. You'll notice that each one of the top actors are different from the other, none of them are simular, in looks or the way they act. Knowing people doesn't hurt eather.

I wouldn't live in hollywood if you paid me.:down:
 

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Arguing over the internet is like competing in the special olympics. Congratulations, but you're still a retard.
 

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the real question is, how do you manage to bring up a 2 year old thread.

Make a new one "fuk head" haha
 
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