Well, this Sunday I'm going to have my first taste of College, as that's when I have to go there for band camp. And right after band camp ends, which is around Friday of next week, school starts. And I don't know why, but I just have anxiety about it. You know, anxiety about walking around the universities huge campus and stuff, worrying I won't be able to find my classes and stuff. Heck, even a little worry that I might even get lost. I mean, I am kind of pumped for the football games and meeting new people and all that stuff, but there's still the anxiety. So does anyone have any tips on getting OVER this?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Anxiety about going to college?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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You will not be the only one... and i'm sure your lecturer won't mind if you say you got lost 
I go to university/college in about a month and I am excited as hell... but I get my exam results tomorrow so I Could fail?! :O Probly won't
I go to university/college in about a month and I am excited as hell... but I get my exam results tomorrow so I Could fail?! :O Probly won'tFuryguy
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Get a map of the campus, know where stuff is before you NEED to know where it is.
My first few months I had no idea where the **** anything was or where I was going. Campus was bad enough, but the surrounding area and nearest city were even worse. Luckily I mostly hung with kids that had been there a little while so I didn't have to locate much on my own.
You can always just walk out the door and see where you wind up. That's usually enjoyable in an unfamiliar place.
My first few months I had no idea where the **** anything was or where I was going. Campus was bad enough, but the surrounding area and nearest city were even worse. Luckily I mostly hung with kids that had been there a little while so I didn't have to locate much on my own.
You can always just walk out the door and see where you wind up. That's usually enjoyable in an unfamiliar place.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dont be afraid at all! If you were the Loser in highschool no one knows that, you can start from strach, and be the guy with all the girls. Seriously the girls are horny as **** and its like shooting fish in the barrel. Youll have a blast man.