"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Antichrist Superstar: the Heirophant (Beginning...)

The Antichrist_Star

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I will be turning twenty years old in February. In honor of that... I present to you twenty things that I have learned over the years.

1. You are a much better person than you think yourself to be.

2. Those people who rule your High School now, do not be envious of them... just wait until you see them three years from now.

3. You may not understand it now, but whole "It is not the size of the dog in the fight, but the size of the fight in the dog." is so true it is scary.

4. Listen to your parents sometimes, the things that they say are not always far fetched.

5. Nothing is more important that your passions, your hobbies, and your education... yes you heard me... nothing.

6. "Friends" and women are a dime a dozen... trust me when I tell you this (especially those people that are still in High School) you think the women are fine now... you just wait.

7. True friends however, are something that should be cherished and never neglected.

8. The same could be said for your family... I know, I know... you cannot stand them (same here), but when push comes to shove, they have the tendency to be there for you when no one else in the world will.

9. In the grand scheme of things, look out for yourself over everyone else. No one, not even your family and your closest friends, will keep you in mind all the time... only you can do that.

10. Wear what you want to wear, say what you want to say, listen to whatever you want to listen to, and do what you want to do. Will people always like it? No... but they will respect it.

11. You only live once... and this time sure as hell is not practice.

12. Regret is for people who think that tomorrow is guaranteed.

13. You will never truly know the consequences until you perform the action.

14. You will fall, you will fail, you will stumble, you will miss your mark, you will not always get what you want, or when you want it, you are not infallible, you are not perfect. This applies to everyone... understand this as fact and simply move on.

15. Rejection is as guaranteed as death and taxes... accept this and move on.

16. On the subject of women... always remember that women are far more afraid of themselves and us, than we are of ourselves and them... if you do not believe me... think about how long it takes for a woman to get ready in the morning versus how long it takes you.

17. There is no I in team... this means a lot more than you may think.

18. Compromise is for chumps... collaboration is the key.

19. There is nothing that a woman can do for you (all sexual favors aside) that you cannot do for yourself... that goes for anyone else as well.

20. Sex is both underrated and overrated at the same time... think about that.

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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LikRetsam

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Originally posted by ohiofutballa
Everything clicked with me especially #12

Bravo
Oh yeah, number 12 made me read it a few times.
 

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Terrible. I hated it. What dream world are you living in? :D

Bravo... bravo...
 

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Back to the top of the board with you, says I.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Always good to hear your thoughts bro....
 

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#18 is perfect, for anyone who didnt understand it, go back and read it untill you do.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Void

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number 12 is a nice one. good job.
 

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How could one neglect 11?
Think about all the times you ****ed up...then think about 12 before you go too far.

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great post Matrix
 
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