"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Antichrist Superstar: the Heirophant (Beginning...)

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I will be turning twenty years old in February. In honor of that... I present to you twenty things that I have learned over the years.

1. You are a much better person than you think yourself to be.

2. Those people who rule your High School now, do not be envious of them... just wait until you see them three years from now.

3. You may not understand it now, but whole "It is not the size of the dog in the fight, but the size of the fight in the dog." is so true it is scary.

4. Listen to your parents sometimes, the things that they say are not always far fetched.

5. Nothing is more important that your passions, your hobbies, and your education... yes you heard me... nothing.

6. "Friends" and women are a dime a dozen... trust me when I tell you this (especially those people that are still in High School) you think the women are fine now... you just wait.

7. True friends however, are something that should be cherished and never neglected.

8. The same could be said for your family... I know, I know... you cannot stand them (same here), but when push comes to shove, they have the tendency to be there for you when no one else in the world will.

9. In the grand scheme of things, look out for yourself over everyone else. No one, not even your family and your closest friends, will keep you in mind all the time... only you can do that.

10. Wear what you want to wear, say what you want to say, listen to whatever you want to listen to, and do what you want to do. Will people always like it? No... but they will respect it.

11. You only live once... and this time sure as hell is not practice.

12. Regret is for people who think that tomorrow is guaranteed.

13. You will never truly know the consequences until you perform the action.

14. You will fall, you will fail, you will stumble, you will miss your mark, you will not always get what you want, or when you want it, you are not infallible, you are not perfect. This applies to everyone... understand this as fact and simply move on.

15. Rejection is as guaranteed as death and taxes... accept this and move on.

16. On the subject of women... always remember that women are far more afraid of themselves and us, than we are of ourselves and them... if you do not believe me... think about how long it takes for a woman to get ready in the morning versus how long it takes you.

17. There is no I in team... this means a lot more than you may think.

18. Compromise is for chumps... collaboration is the key.

19. There is nothing that a woman can do for you (all sexual favors aside) that you cannot do for yourself... that goes for anyone else as well.

20. Sex is both underrated and overrated at the same time... think about that.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LikRetsam

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Originally posted by ohiofutballa
Everything clicked with me especially #12

Bravo
Oh yeah, number 12 made me read it a few times.
 

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Terrible. I hated it. What dream world are you living in? :D

Bravo... bravo...
 

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Back to the top of the board with you, says I.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Always good to hear your thoughts bro....
 

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#18 is perfect, for anyone who didnt understand it, go back and read it untill you do.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Void

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number 12 is a nice one. good job.
 

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How could one neglect 11?
Think about all the times you ****ed up...then think about 12 before you go too far.

Live On
 

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great post Matrix
 
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