"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Yes , feeling against being sold ,
I do know there are many others buying by taking off responsibility,buyin the sizzle,4 hour work week ,all get easy money on internet
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Alle_Gory said:You mean you don't like being sold things?
As far as the "feeling against being sold" everyone has that. That's why a good salesman doesn't make you feel like he's selling you something as much as he is showing you something you like and providing it for you.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
you know it's that time of the year where the police officers around the country start calling random motherfvckers for donations. I am a big hearted guy and I don't have a problem with this and usually do donate. anyway this guy calls me and i already know the deal, but i let him run through his sales pitch. he asks me what donation level i want to give and i ask what are my options. he tells me the three "VIP" packages are gold , 300, silver 200 and bronze 100. 300 bucks is not a lot i can swing that pretty easily, plus it's a tax write off lol. tell him yeah just sendf out whatever the hell you have to send out i will have my wife cut a check no problem. the dude is like "so just to confirm you want to do the gold package". i'm like yeah that's cool. he's like, are you sure... i'm like dude, yeah. send it out. so he goes on again and then like 20 seconds later he's like now are you SURE i'm like dude what you are trying to say lol, do you not want the fvcking money or what. if i did not want to send you anything i would have hung up on you lol. **** dude come on i'm dying over here i got **** to do.
don';t ever give your client a chance to back track/go back. even though i was not, if i was hesitate at all that gave me an out. you don't want to give clients outs. that's like going to buy a car and the car salesman asking "now are you sure you want to buy this car today".
We have to cold call people or get meetings through my existing network at the firm and rule number 1 is, never give them a reason to cancel your meeting. Once i get them to agree to a call, in person meeting at their office, or etc. that's the end of it. I tell them i speak/see them then and never follow-up. A follow-up gives them a chance to cancel.
Sales is a little bit different as you do need to follow-up so its important to build a relationship. you rarely have anyone buy your product without trialing/trying it out. When i won the last firm competition for getting the most trials, i never once mentioned to them anything about price/selling them. I just told them what the product did, how it would benefit them, and if they have a few minutes, i'd be glad to get them setup.
Keep it really short and to the point. Most people are busy and generally don't read past a few lines in an email.