Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Anti-Intellectualism, Populism, and Motivated Resistance to Expert Consensus

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“Scholars have maintained that public attitudes often diverge from expert consensus due to ideology-driven motivated reasoning. However, this is not a sufficient explanation for less salient and politically charged questions. More attention needs to be given to anti-intellectualism—the generalized mistrust of intellectuals and experts.”

Food for thought…
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Interesting comment, I think the advent of the regular joe’s use of the ‘Net’s ease of communication and spread of both information and disinformation comes into play as well.

What was previously relegated to low distribution magazines and photocopiers and snail mail now is available in seconds.
 

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“Scholars have maintained that public attitudes often diverge from expert consensus due to ideology-driven motivated reasoning.
The irony is that the experts are all idealogy-driven. This is a hit piece on people who deny following the collective thought, which is common in socialist/ communist states.

Listen to people like Thomas Sowell instead. Intellectuals are not actually smart. They've been sold a clever lie.

 
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