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Anti-Intellectualism, Populism, and Motivated Resistance to Expert Consensus

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“Scholars have maintained that public attitudes often diverge from expert consensus due to ideology-driven motivated reasoning. However, this is not a sufficient explanation for less salient and politically charged questions. More attention needs to be given to anti-intellectualism—the generalized mistrust of intellectuals and experts.”

Food for thought…
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Interesting comment, I think the advent of the regular joe’s use of the ‘Net’s ease of communication and spread of both information and disinformation comes into play as well.

What was previously relegated to low distribution magazines and photocopiers and snail mail now is available in seconds.
 

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“Scholars have maintained that public attitudes often diverge from expert consensus due to ideology-driven motivated reasoning.
The irony is that the experts are all idealogy-driven. This is a hit piece on people who deny following the collective thought, which is common in socialist/ communist states.

Listen to people like Thomas Sowell instead. Intellectuals are not actually smart. They've been sold a clever lie.

 
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