"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Anti-Dump Still Sucks

Bonhomme

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I like to have phone #s on a hard copy, in case my phone is lost, stolen, or dropped in the toilet (don't laugh, I've known people who have).

But my main issue with Anti-Dump is that his approach cuts out a large % of women who are interested enough to date a man and be crazy about him after he blows her mind by handling her like no one she's ever experienced.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bonhomme said:
But my main issue with Anti-Dump is that his approach cuts out a large % of women who are interested enough to date a man and be crazy about him after he blows her mind by handling her like no one she's ever experienced.
phyzzle said:
but neither one talks about creating raw attraction in the 1st few minutes.

okay so we've adentified whats wrong with it, can exactly do you go about it attraction in the first few minutes ?

Maybe they thought it wasn't possible..?
 
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