"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Anti-Dump Still Sucks

Bonhomme

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I like to have phone #s on a hard copy, in case my phone is lost, stolen, or dropped in the toilet (don't laugh, I've known people who have).

But my main issue with Anti-Dump is that his approach cuts out a large % of women who are interested enough to date a man and be crazy about him after he blows her mind by handling her like no one she's ever experienced.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Bonhomme said:
But my main issue with Anti-Dump is that his approach cuts out a large % of women who are interested enough to date a man and be crazy about him after he blows her mind by handling her like no one she's ever experienced.
phyzzle said:
but neither one talks about creating raw attraction in the 1st few minutes.

okay so we've adentified whats wrong with it, can exactly do you go about it attraction in the first few minutes ?

Maybe they thought it wasn't possible..?
 
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