"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Anti-Dump Still Sucks

Bonhomme

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I like to have phone #s on a hard copy, in case my phone is lost, stolen, or dropped in the toilet (don't laugh, I've known people who have).

But my main issue with Anti-Dump is that his approach cuts out a large % of women who are interested enough to date a man and be crazy about him after he blows her mind by handling her like no one she's ever experienced.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bonhomme said:
But my main issue with Anti-Dump is that his approach cuts out a large % of women who are interested enough to date a man and be crazy about him after he blows her mind by handling her like no one she's ever experienced.
phyzzle said:
but neither one talks about creating raw attraction in the 1st few minutes.

okay so we've adentified whats wrong with it, can exactly do you go about it attraction in the first few minutes ?

Maybe they thought it wasn't possible..?
 
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