"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Answering women Like a REAL MAN
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Your reply to this thread was very childlike.. the way it sounds, you need some growing up to do. no offense. Probably reflects your inner/outter game
ebracer05
Senior Don Juan
If you spin a plate long enough you'll have to pass the ultimate test and there is no way you can prepare for it. You went out, you got the plate, and you did well enough to keep it in rotation.
Now wtf are you going to do with her?
You will be situationally tested in 2 ways:
First, does your behavior change now that you have the girl? You went from having nothing to having something. Has everything been an act, because you can't act forever. If you have been acting, you will get comfortable and you will reveal who you really are.
Second, sh*t happens in life that you can't prepare for. A problem will come up with one of the two of you. These things happen all the time in life and they seem to happen more frequently when you try doing life with someone else. How do you react to these situations, because surprise and bad situations tend to draw out the most authentic parts of who we are.
The question always comes back to, what are you going to do with her now that you have her. And you can't fake that test.
If you're not actually righteous, it won't matter how righteously you've acted. Veneer is cheap and common. Nobody wants a righteously veneered AFC.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
i always have the best answer and worst possible answer pop into my head, and can either
1) deliver the best one with complete seriousness,
or *my favorite*
2) deliver the worst possible answer with a cheeky grin and watch her face change as she tries to figure out if im taking the p!ss
Note: option 2 will NOT go down well by text!!!
Be prepared to deliver option 1 moments afterwith an 'i'm kidding!!', just in case she kicks off royally!
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Iceberg
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My thoughts exactly.Iceberg said:
GotED?
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Purefilth
Master Don Juan
yup true for me, but im quite happy with who i amGotED? said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
At the time I said "Ok, and it's just a coincidence that you lost your phone this week also? And you cancelled a date for the first time in 6 months? Things happen for a reason. Not for two reasons. If you want to get rid of me just say so, I'll walk away. Did you think I would cry? I was looking for a reason to get rid of you. Do you know how much money I'll save? I've been waiting for you to mess up, but you hadn't messed up yet. Any time a woman ever crossed me, a much better girl came along. So I'm hoping you cross me."