You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I never said I say what I think I know. I say what I know what I've been through and sometimes what I think. Secondly this site has everything you need to succeed (suck seed, oh). The DJ Bible has great info and exercises. Also you can ask questions. If you want you can pay out 1500 dollars for a bootcamp. Or you can hunker down ask questions and keep cool. This is the last time I'm going to say this. There is know secret to getting women no tricks. There I said it.HUFFY said:What kind of site is this?
So according to Chosen1, all you guys do is come here and talk about what the **** you think and know?
What in the blue ****? I thought this site was where guys came and they knew how to pull women.
From the responses, all of you guys are basically saying you don't know ****. Well then...if you don't know ****, then how the hell Chosen1 can you guys come and talk about what you THINK AND KNOW if you don't know anything?
Can someone please direct me to a site where I can learn more about picking up women please?
I forgot the name of what you guys would be called, I think it's Keyboard Players or something? But I don't have time for that **** I have a life.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I bet you are to dense to even realize why there is no startegy to picking up women. The reason is because there are to many variables. Everything plays a part in your getting laid or not. How you dress your race your height your smile or lack there of. There is just to much. Even mystery could lay every women in the world because of guess what. Variables, I guess you can change those stupid things but if you want some statergy here's some:HUFFY said:omg obsidian, so what are you so ****y because you "belong" around here or something?
wtf dude, I thought this was some real ****.
So conclusions:
1. According to you guys on this site, there's no real strategy for getting girls, Chosen1 says just go up and have fun and talk. What bull****?
2. Now, since you guys sum up that's there no real strategy for getting girls, then WHY DO YOU LOG IN HERE EVERYDAY?
To have a discussion?
omg, get me out of this forum right now.
THERE ARE NO PUAS ON THIS FORUM....
REPEAT....
THERE ARE NO PUAS ON THIS FORUM
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Did you even read that. I never said I have a problem get laid in that. I said I have a problem remembering my goals. That is not the same. Now if you want to find proof that I don't get laid go back farther. anybody that reads that knows that sometimes you forget things you wanted to do or promised yourself. I did say I spank my monkey to much but I have a job now and things I have to worry about man. What really pisses me off is that this is not proof, I hate being lied on get a life.HUFFY said:Yeah Chosen1 I guess you're so hot right?
From your post here:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=114599&highlight=chosen1
It's obvious that you are not. You said right there that you don't have any skills.
I want some PUAs to start talking. I don't want to talk to somebody who doesn't know ****. Why do you even post threads dude? Trying to pretend that you are somebody that you are not, dude this is an internet discussion forum, nobody gives a **** about your sorry ass.